“The elephant in the ESL classroom”: discussing racist pronunciation comedy . . . in the mid-April issue of TYSN

April 2026 Vol 8 Issue 4

Tell Your Story Newsletter (TYSN): 

Teaching English as a Second Language

Let us help you tell your story!

Welcome Mid-April 2026!

After enduring a long, very grey winter in Saskatoon, locals are more keen than ever to jumpstart spring! Seed packets and germination kits, as well as tulips and hydrangea appeared several weeks ago in local grocery stores. But the recent freezing drizzle and the forecast of another 10 cm of snow to fall tonight are taking us in the opposite direction!

That said, recent days have brought us more sunshine and warmer temperatures, so we are ushering “Ol’ Man Winter” out the “EXIT” door!

Since my last issue of “Tell Your Story Newsletter,”  I have been busy teaching ESL to students including a Ukrainian newcomer, with a second returning to classes next week. I’ve also received inquiries from Chinese students, as I reach out to friends-of-friends in that community.

In the Western calendar, we recently observed Easter for another year. Some of us listened anew to the Biblical story of Christ’s Resurrection. Whether you observed the religious holiday, spent the days working, or enjoyed a secular break with family and friends, I hope that Easter has brought lightness and hope to your lives.

In “Article One” of this issue, I approach the thorny problem caused when ESL learners (or non-native speakers generally) mispronounce English and/or have heavy accents. Decades of British TV comedy (not to mention comedy elsewhere) have turned the problem into a source of laughter and derision (i.e. racism). And native speakers aware of newcomers’ pronunciation challenges sometimes try to suppress the issue altogether. What is this “elephant in the ESL classroom” about?

And in “Shop News,” I express gratitude for some of the amazing people with whom I occupy time and space, as fellow teachers, writers, editors, estate managers and other friends.

May the (albeit delayed) dawn of spring still bring peace and fulfillment to you, good readers, even in these troubled times.

Sincerely,

Elizabeth

Principal

Storytelling Communications

www.elizabethshih.com

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IN THIS ISSUE:

 ARTICLE ONE: The elephant in the ESL classroom: discussing racist pronunciation comedy . . . in three 20th-Century British TV shows

SHOP NEWS

ABOUT US

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Article One: The elephant in the ESL classroom: racist pronunciation comedy . . .  in three 20th-Century British TV shows

Recent discussions in the business world about non-native English speakers’  need for accent reduction (or better-termed, accent modification), tend to skirt the problem of speakers who are not understandable. On Linkedin last week, several colleagues or supervisors of non-native speakers of English wrote comments that reflect a politically-correct view: “accents aren’t that important; it’s the ideas that count.”

And yet many of us have (or have lived) evidence to the contrary. Plenty of challenges have arisen over the centuries when non-native speakers of English who have heavy accents immigrate to Anglophone countries. The history of accent modification is evident when one researches the significant number of English as a Second or Additional Language textbooks that focus on “accent reduction” or modification:

After working for more than 15 years with Chinese professionals in the US, Lauren Supraner, an American intercultural communications specialist, authored Accent Reduction for Chinese SpeakersA Pronunciation Course for Chinese Speakers of English (2019). She has written openly that “accent reduction” is sometimes needed, and possible to attain, by Chinese speakers of English to succeed in North America.

Two other, seminal guides for English pronunciation have been recommended by teacher-trainers and long published by Cambridge UP, namely Pronunciation Pairs: An Introduction to the Sounds of English (2008), and Ship or Sheep: An Intermediate Pronunciation Course (2006)

There are also numerous volumes from authors like US-based speech-language pathologist, Rebecca Bower, that offer strategies to learn a “general American accent.”

As these resources show, there are learnable (and teachable) skills of mouth, jaw, tongue and lip movement that can alter the sounds of spoken English for non-native speakers. These are skills that help them to be better understood and so to achieve greater outcomes in their careers and lives.

Post-colonial insights matter here. None of these books suggest the racist assumptions that the English language should always come first; or that the additional/second language speaker is speaking in an inferior way; or that they will end up working at “dead-end” jobs in English-speaking countries, which they should be thankful for (!). Instead, the task is a practical one: non-native speakers need to have understandable accents when they speak English in an Anglophone country.

As the history of ESL/EFL/EAL education shows, when non-native speakers are educated in, conduct business in, or live in a dominant or monolingual English culture, they need to be understood by native speakers, even though the latter should (and often do) strive to listen their way “through” a non-native speaker’s accent.

Mocking second or additional language speakers’ mistakes and the challenges they face toward comprehensibility is offensive to committed English language teachers (me included) and, far worse, to the non-native speakers, themselves. (As I’ve often said, to my students, my early inability to acquire quickly the tone-based pronunciation of Mandarin, my late father’s first language, would have made me the laughing stock of Chinese speakers, worldwide, and not furnish me with a career in China!  But we’re specifically addressing English here.)

And yet racism sometimes still arises from social media discussions and in representations of ESL/EFL/EAL speakers’ pronunciation. Even the phrase “non-native speakers” can offend populations of Indigenous people worldwide, who have historically used the term “native” to describe themselves.

Popular late 20th-Century British drama (not so long ago) portrayed multiple “foreign” characters who speak English badly: their heavy accents result in misunderstandings that are exploited for comic effect. One that comes to mind is the much-abused, Spanish servant, “Manuel,” in “Fawlty Towers.” As you likely know, many such comedies are now archived on YouTube.

For instance, the popular British TV drama (1982-1992), “Allo, Allo” (originally broadcast on the BBC), features a French café owner, Rene Artois, in the town of Nouvion, France, during the German occupation of France in World War II. As researchers of “Wikipedia” write (I confirmed by cringe-watching the show), Rene struggles “with problems from a dishonest German officer, the local French Resistance, the handling of a stolen painting and a pair of trapped British airmen, all while concealing from his [tone-deaf but singing] wife the affairs he is having with his waitresses.”

Much of the humour, online sources say, inheres in “classic farce set-ups, comedy of errors, physical comedy, visual gags, alongside a large amount of sexual [and sexist] innuendo and a fast-paced running string of broad cultural cliches.”

“Allo, Allo” features British actors pretending to be French, speaking English “with theatrical foreign accents to distinguish each character’s nationality.”

Particularly central to “Allo, Allo” is “Officer Crabtree,” a “hopeless British undercover officer, constantly disguised as a local French policeman during World War II. Much of the character’s humour derives from his supposed inability to pronounce French words correctly in conversation. The show features his ludicrous exaggeration and mispronunciation of common English words. For example, he mispronounces “Good morning” as “Good moaning,” and “I was passing by the door and I thought I would drop in” becomes “I was just pissing by the door and I thought I would drip in.”

The actor playing Crabtree was English (and a native-speaker of English). But “while portraying a Frenchman mispronouncing English, the actor extensively deploys malapropisms” to represent his character’s lack of English fluency.  It’s hard deny it’s a clever device.

Online promoters of “Allo, Allo” mention that this device works by “altering certain words in the character’s sentences, substituting different vowels or consonants, changing them into different or nonsensical words, usually laden with innuendo.” Although no character in “Allo, Allo” is depicted favourably, the humour arises consistently by the portrayal of foreigners who speak English with bad accents and ineptitude.

Here is a sample (you may have to copy and paste into your browser):

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ilhJvFngWcY&list=PLiZCl6XIGf-iIZzvWDqcD_UOWAqTDjs7M&index=1

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And, as you might expect, other BBC comedy is replete with more of the same racist, sexist and stereotypical portrayals of foreigners with absurdly bad accents.

Consider “The Two Ronnies” (Ronnie Barker and Ronnie Corbett, in the 1970s and 80s), who, Wikipedia writers tell us, “frequently use . . . the misunderstanding and parody of foreign languages, as a cornerstone of their wordplay-driven comedy. Their sketches often highlight the absurdity of language barriers, mispronunciation and the pomposity of lessons. Their work [is] full of puns, mispronunciation and stereotypical linguistic misunderstandings.”

For instance, “Ali Baba” is the stereotypical (racist) name given to a wealthy Arab Sheikh who visits an English deli in “Pronunciation Problems,”  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SzeEq5MvNFg

As the English shopkeeper insists on correcting the Arab’s mispronunciations, the latter man takes back his significant supply of British currency from the counter between them, with the result that “money talks” louder than his heavily accented mispronunciation.

Another of The Two Ronnies’ sketches, “Swedish Made Simple,” centres on a language lesson in a restaurant setting. The older Barker plays a putative Swedish teacher, pretending to be a waiter, teaching basic restaurant Swedish, using single-letter words (in subtitles) to the younger Corbett.

The dialogue is not Swedish at all, Wikipedia authors tell us, but a ridiculous parody of Norwegian (perhaps later mimicked by the “Swedish Chef” on “The Muppet Show?”). Corbett’s efforts to learn “Swedish” are full of mispronounced vowels, laden with sexist innuendo. (Note also the addition to the story of the stereotypical blonde “bimbo” waitress.)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cc3M1nppd3c&t=1s

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Finally, perhaps the worst offender in the genre of English mispronunciation comedy premiered on ITV in 1977, “Mind Your Language.” Like the two programs cited above, the racism of this show also relies on misogyny to meet its comedic goals. Running until 1979, and briefly revived in the late 1980s, “Mind Your Language” features both male and female adult students of differing social backgrounds, religions and languages “set in an adult education college in London.” The show ” focuses on an ESL class taught by Jeremy Brown, to a group of enrolled foreigners.”

Teacher Brown (Wikipedia tells us; I have cringe-watched episodes to confirm) is an ESL teacher who provides the point-of-view. He is a congenial, “single man in his 30s who lives alone . . . and holds a BA from Oxford University.” In the series’ pilot, when he’s hired, the school administrator tells him that the prior teacher was driven insane by the students. Brown manages the mayhem but is often “exasperated by these students’ versions of the English language.”

Prominent in the series is the stereotypical Italian Catholic chef, Giovanni Cupello, who seems unable to understand English metaphors and long words, although he often answers mistakenly to amuse his peers. Similarly, Maximillian (“Max”) Papandrious is a Greek Orthodox shipping worker from Athens, who often spars with Giovanni.

Giovanni and Max become good friends, flatmates and ironically “have the best command of English of all the characters in the class.” Yet their progress  in English is shown to be minimal, at best.

Other characters animate historical stereotypes of tensions between Chinese and Japanese; Indian and Pakistani cultures, rivalry between French and Swedish au pairs, and the competition of physically attractive or assertive women characters (with sexist stereotypes of hourglass figures and heavy makeup). They also vie for teacher Brown’s affection.

Stereotypical language issues are portrayed—the Chinese character confuses “r” and “l”; the German mixes “w” and “v” sounds; religious and class differences abound. And yet, some episodes after conflicts arise, the hostile characters inexplicably return as friends (apt for a sitcom). Conflicts are tidily resolved off-stage. Laughter becomes a safety-valve that relieves the pressure of such conflict without addressing its significance.

“Allo, Allo” “The Two Ronnies” and “Mind Your Language” are only three examples of what could be called late 20th-Century British racist pronunciation comedy. Further research into TV and radio programming from the period would undoubtedly find many more.

But these three sample programs readily suggest not only that pronunciation problems are an inherent challenge for non-native speakers learning English, but also that such problems are socially acceptable to laugh at (and therefore, the racism).

The characters’ speech is driven by stereotype, sexism/misogyny and racism, at the expense of ethnic minorities and women (often both at the same time). These groups are regularly “thrown under the bus” for cheap laughs and are portrayed by actors whose physical features (e.g. large noses, hairy skin and large bustlines) are easily exploited for comic effect.

While comedy that mocks minority races, classes, women and sexual identities is a staple of late 20th-Century British TV and radio programming, the world of ESL/EFL/EAL teaching tends to tread gingerly through such domains. Decades after these shows revelled in racist representations of non-native English speakers, Anglophones today (e.g. on social media, like Linkedin) sometimes bracket off the genuinely complex challenges that arise from non-native speakers’ mispronunciations and accents.

Comedy (especially satirical) is a notoriously slippery genre, so few language teachers  I’ve encountered ever refer to such TV programs for their disempowering effect on racial minorities and women.

Given more contemporary awareness of homosexual, transgender and other non-binary identity issues, one can only imagine new layers of satire which 21st-Century English pronunciation comedy could exploit (and already does, in European programming not as well known on this side of the Atlantic).

When authoritarian politics have overwhelmed our world, increasing the disempowerment of racial minorities and women, it’s worth wondering whose interests are served when minorities’ speaking challenges are dismissed by political correctness—i.e. when native speakers write on social media, “it’s the ideas, not the accent that matter.” Language proficiency and fluency, including pronunciation, are never simple. Comprehension challenges don’t disappear on their own.

On Linkedin, where some native speakers try to reassure non-native English speakers that their “ideas are more important than their accents,” we need to acknowledge that these two aspects of language are always already intertwined. Ideas can only be understood if a speaker’s accent is decipherable. While racist pronunciation comedy from past decades is not socially acceptable, today’s trite statements of political correctness seem to deny (“whitewash”) decades of Anglophones’ racism toward non-native speakers. What happens to the frustrations and injustices experienced by non-native English speakers, and, at the same time, where do Anglophones’ contempt and racism go?

Are we not simply burying (in what might seem a new way), what happens to the suffering of our cultural, linguistic, sexual and gender minority groups? For a speaker’s ideas to matter, they must be understandable by others. Accents are an inextricable part of the delivery of ideas.

One of the unresolvable difficulties of accent modification when one learns new languages is that power inheres in one’s ability to sound similar, and with pressure to sound “the same.” But refusing to recognize the limiting effects on comprehension that come with non-idiomatic “accents” can become its own kind of homogenizing (“whitewashing”) activity, masquerading as tolerance and acceptance. Denial does not efface the loss and difficulty that result from mispronunciation.

The human condition, including its reliance on linguistic communication, inherently includes loss, which ultimately demands empathy and tolerance for non-native speakers at a time in history (now) when both are in short supply.

And now it’s your turn: What do you think about racist pronunciation comedy? And might contemporary social media sometimes cause us to bury the complexity of comprehension, including our potential intolerance (as native speakers)?

 Please share your thoughts; I’d be delighted to hear from you.

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SHOP NEWS:

It seems hard to imagine that Easter passed just one week ago, when many of us listened anew to the story of Christ’s crucifixion and resurrection.

Special thanks to Rev. Devon Pattemore of Regina, SK, who has preached so movingly to the church I attend, while substituting for our regular minister, Rev. Roberto De Sandoli (currently on parental leave).

Rev. Devon’s insights and empathy through the Easter season have been challenging and inspiring to reflect on and absorb.

And those words have provided spiritual armour in the week since Easter, when American dictator Donald Trump has gleefully continued to support Russia’s war in Ukraine; murdered civilians and destroyed much of Iranian civilization; and most recently, usurped the role of Christ-the-Healer in a heinous, AI-generated and blasphemous Easter portrait he posted online.

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During times of autocratic leadership in our world, I’ve been especially concerned to read about the devolution (and imminent disappearance) of a tremendously vital educational resource English language curriculum, “One Stop English” (OSE).

Recommended to me several years ago by TEFL.org’s webinar host, advisor and teacher-trainer, Carl Cameron-Day, I have used “OSE” to create timely and thought provoking, one-on-one ESL classes for adults and youth. The platform also has resources for teaching children.

Drawing on sources such as “The Guardian,” “The Times (of London),” the BBC and the British Council, “OSE” has been invaluable to many English language teachers, worldwide for decades.

The development of AI has overtaken much in the publishing world. The developers of “OSE” have found the costs of maintaining and building of the platform exceed available resourcees.

Sadly, “OSE” will close its online “doors” in June. But in the meantime, ESL teachers and learners who have memberships are well-advised to download resources, which has been generously encouraged by the platform’s directors and developers.

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Thank you to small business and estate lawyer, Ben Nussbaum, and his very able assistant, Ingrid Atkinson, for their fine work, insights and patience shared on even the busiest of days.

The kind of legal support they provide is essential when a family has “grieving brains.”

Thank you, Ben, Ingrid and their team!

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It’s been a privilege to review and edit one of several articles by my long-distance friend, midwife Christel (originally from South Africa, now living in BC).

Christel is developing several articles on midwifery out of her recently defended PhD dissertation on midwifery in her native South Africa.

It’s been a privilege and pleasure to read Christel’s work and to learn more about midwifery standards and practices in South Africa, Europe and America.

Christel plans to build a midwifery-led birthing centre in the future in BC, Ontario or Alberta. (Unfortunately,  she could not “sell” this prospect to the Province, so she and her family have relocated  to BC.)

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I’ve been delighted to work for a month with a lovely Ukrainian through a non-profit organization. While it is painful to hear from her about the political and cultural losses that Ukraine has suffered in its war with Russia, we have also found space for genuine learning and enjoyment, as we practice English conversation each week.

Shortly, this student will start online language classes with one of our local settlement agencies. I will be delighted to see how that opportunity will allow her to develop her life in Canada.

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Thank you to my Chinese cousins Jian-Yu (Jenny) and Deming (David), who have retired in British Columbia, for their recent interest in my English-language classes (ESL), which they have promoted to more distant contacts both in China and Canada.

Although we’ve always respected and enjoyed each others’ friendship, for many years the demands of education and careers took us in different directions.

So it has been such a mid-life blessing to return to closer communication! I cherish their interest and support.

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Special thanks go out this month to Beth Brimner and Joann Brimner for including me in their Easter Sunday feast in Erindale. The delicious ham, scalloped potatoes, all many side-dishes and desserts were delectable!

Beth and Joann’s company, along with a good visit with their local Chinese friends, made for a wonderful Easter celebration, and a reunion from last Christmas Eve!

Thank you, dear friends, and Easter Blessings upon you.

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At Easter and in Saskatchewan’s fledgling spring, good reader, I hope you have found emotional and spiritual refuge, whichever faith you follow (or do not), and among family and friends, as we continue to care for our beautiful, but  broken, planet.

Can swearing help us cope with loss? One answer in the mid-March issue of TYSN!

March 2026  Vol 8 Issue 3

Tell Your Story Newsletter:

Teaching English as a Second Language

Let us help you tell your story!

 

Welcome Mid-March 2026.  Spring is coming!

As I prepare this issue of “Tell Your Story Newsletter,” we mark one year from Prime Minister Mark Carney’s election as Canada’s 24th Prime Minister. Even for those who dread international politics (and there’s never a shortage of criticism), Carney has been organized and decisive in strengthening foreign and domestic policy through these tumultuous times. He has started to shift Canadian foreign policy and our economy amidst threats from Donald Trump, the wars in Ukraine and Iran and more.

And less than a week ago, progressive thinkers in the Western world observed “International Women’s Day,” at a time when women in particular have lost much ground under ruling men whose psychopathic behaviours have undermined much of democratic values.

At a time when many of us are facing losses, Canadian-born theologian Kate Bowler has blogged about the importance of “swearing.” Swearing, you might ask? How could that possibly help? It’s personal, Bowler would say; and Friedan was right to connect the personal with the political. (It was feminist Carol Hanisch in 1970 who famously wrote, “The personal is the political.”) . . . The more things change, the more they stay the same . . .

In “Storytellers’ Corner,” I revisit five “common Latin terms everyone should know,” from contributors to the online resource, “Grammar Check.”

Rather than insisting that everyone “should” know such Latin terms, I offer them instead as a source for experimentation and laughter, to be applied (if you wish) at your next meeting with family or friends (haha)!

And, although the wind was bitterly cold in Saskatoon this week, I hope you have found, good readers, the relief that has come with the lengthening of daylight hours and the return of at least some prairie sunshine.

Despite the wars and international governments that instill hatred for, segregate, torture and even murder the vulnerable, may each of us find compassion for ourselves and our neighbours, and to appreciate the blessings we still receive, even as we try to oppose the lawlessness in our world.

As a friend recently wrote: “Three nutritious meals each day, the chance to earn a living that supports my family, and (at night), a warm bed and a good book may be blessings enough to keep going.”

And may we find rest in such blessings each day, before we turn to the work of supporting others in our community, near and far.

Sincerely,

Elizabeth Shih

Principal

Storytelling Communications

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IN THIS ISSUE:

  • ARTICLE 1: Can swearing help us cope with loss?
  • STORYTELLERS’ CORNER: Five Common Latin Terms to Use (or Laugh at)
  • SHOP NEWS
  • ABOUT US

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Article One: Can swearing (in Lent) help us cope with loss? Some thoughts from Kate Bowler  

American theologian Kate Bowler writes with great authenticity about anger, pain and the many forms of loss human beings can endure.

She herself endured stage four breast cancer at age 59 (in 2020) and her book titles themselves reflect her questioning of a Divine Being, faith, and life itself:

Have a beautiful, terrible day! Daily meditations for the ups, downs and in-betweens;

The lives we actually have: 100 blessings for imperfect days;

Everything happens for a reason: and other lies I’ve loved;

and

Joyful, Anyway.

Bowler embraces a hands-on, down-to-earth theology on finding hope and grace amidst the most gruelling of life’s challenges (e.g. life-threatening cancer when she was raising a young child).

In a recent blog posting, she testifies that swearing has a therapeutic effect, as she’s found in the “ten years since [she] took up cursing for Lent.”

It may not be “theologically ideal” to curse, she says. But “the greater honesty I have been afforded, the more theological discomfort I have been able to tolerate.”

Lent, for those who do not know, is a season in the Christian calendar when believers try to understand Christ’s own sacrifice on the cross by taking on one of their own: we may give up bad habits, start new spiritual practices, donate funds or time to our local church communities, or simply give up alcohol or chocolate for the 40 days leading up to Good Friday (the day of Christ’s crucifixion).

Bowler writes: “Lent asks us to identify with being on the losing team with Jesus as He walks toward His death, either as a witness or as a fellow sufferer. How difficult or easy is it for you, lately, to figure out where you are in the [Easter] story?”

Bowler says that for Lent 10 years ago, “I started swearing.” And cursing, one might argue, can help to find just where in the Easter story one is.

Bowler swore about “cancer. . . . about dry croissants and coffee that cools too quickly.” She continues: “I swear about people trying to narrate me as part of a heroic battle with cancer. I swear about Curious George seeming a little whiney to the Man in the Yellow Hat . . . .” (she is a mom, after all).

Bowler allowed herself to swear after reading “an article about how people in grief swear because they feel the English language has reached its limit in a time of inarticulate sorrow. Or at least that is what I tell people when I am casually dropping f-bombs over lunch, as I explain the mysteries of Lent.”

Today is indeed a “time of inarticulate sorrow,” whether we consider Russia’s war on Ukraine; Israel’s and America’s war on Iran; the atrocities in Afghanistan (to name only three of the world’s “hotspots”).  Immense sorrow coincides painfully with Christ sacrificing his life for believers, over 2000 years ago.

Closer to home, a woman I know has discovered her husband of 20 years has been unfaithful for at least the last three. Another  friend who is a young mother has been diagnosed with stage-three gastrointestinal cancer but finds her family unwilling to provide her with much support.

A colleague who endured horrific abuse as a small child from both parents, reports that she’ll lose her sight before she turns 55.  Sometimes the world holds more sorrow than a person can bear.

A much-loved family friend told me nearly 30 years ago, anticipating Bowler, that the only way through the trials of life was to swear—that my language of coping was too subtle to combat the emotional pain I was enduring as a student.

As a language teacher, I find the possible coping function of swearing to be fascinating. Perhaps we should include some salty language when we’re teaching ESL/EFL to refugees! (Swearing has been part of more than one BBC comedy on the topic!)

Bowler refers to a 2020 article from Keele University psychologists (Staffordshire, UK) that argues “only ‘traditional’ swearing improves our ability to tolerate pain.”

Dr. Richard Stephens (senior lecturer in psychology at Keele) and PhD student Olly Robertson have published a study that “uttering traditional swear words [worked] in helping to tolerate pain.”

By contrast, while saying “fake swear words” like “twizpipe” and “fouch” elicited emotion and laughter, “fake” curses had little impact when it came to coping with pain. This contrasted the salutary effect of “traditional swear words.” Stephens and Robertson found that only well-established curses induced “stress-induced analgesia and increased pain tolerance by 33%.”

The suffering of immigrants and newcomers to Canada (whom I meet in my ESL teaching) could, according to these findings,  be reduced by the emotional efficacy of swearing.

Stephens concludes that “it’s not the surface properties of swear words, such as how they sound, that underlie the beneficial effects of swearing, but something much deeper, probably linked back to childhood as we learn swear words growing up.”

So when our parents or teachers outlawed swearing to us children, when we faced the calamities of life, that discipline may have done us more harm than good. Those easily offended might rethink this study’s findings.

So, yes, we can give up chocolate or caffeine for 40 days, but Bowler recommends that we also practice swearing, especially about today’s authoritarian world politics and their assault on humankind.

Cursing what we cannot change may allow us to process pain and loss that we’d otherwise suppress or repress, and that would then lead to depression and serious mental illness.

In her blog, Bowler reminds believers and agnostics alike, that swearing may help us to remember three basics that can guide us through any season (including Lent and long SK winters)! She asks us to remember: “(a) You are loved. (b) Life is absurd. (c) It’s hard to be a human.”

And now it’s your turn. What do you think of using swearing as a linguistic practice to endure our pain and suffering?

Which swear words do you appreciate? Please write in; I’d be delighted to share your insights in future issues of TYSN.

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STORYTELLERS’ CORNER . . . . 

STORYTELLERS’ CORNER: Words, Stories,

Riddles and Jokes on Writing and Editing . . .

Five Common Latin terms to know and use (from grammarcheck.net)

(1) A priori (From what is before). E.g.: ” ‘All bachelors are unmarried’ is an a priori statement.”

(2) Ad hoc (For this situation). E.g. ” ‘The library was turned into an ad hoc shelter, during the storm.”

(3) Ad infinitum (To infinity). E.g. “Sandra complained about her work ad infinitum.”

(4) Ad libitum or Ad lib (As you desire). E.g. “Some actors used to ad lib their parts in certain scenes of the play.”

(5) Ad nauseam (To the point of sickness). E.g. “We heard another ad nauseam rant about his narcissistic political ambitions.”

If you have never studied Latin (or not for long), how might you make use of these terms in common parlance–for entertainment if not edification?

Please share your stories with me; I’d be delighted to cite you in a future issue. 

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SHOP NEWS:

Special thanks this month to Steve Cavan, whose many hats include those of ESL teacher, mentor and editor.

Steve’s willingness to lend his specialist knowledge of linguistics to support a student with high-level sensitivity has been welcome.

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Thank you to former editing client and long-time friend, Greg Gilroy, for hosting and sharing details of a beautiful birthday party he held for his elderly mother, who recently turned 97!

Few adult children are as attentive to their mothers’  last years as Greg is;  it was heartwarming to view family photos from the event.

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These days, I’m thinking of my dear friend Arian in Ontario, whose family and lifelong friends still live in Iran and who are fugitives, due to Netanyahu and Trump’s attacks on that nation and the subsequent reciprocal bombings unleashed, between it and other, Middle Eastern nations.

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In much happier and healthier news, CONGRATULATIONS go out to new parents, Rev. Roberto and Heather De Sandoli, on the birth of their daughter, Rosanna Marie De Sandoli on March 13th!

Rosanna weighed in at nine pounds and brings her parents, grandparents and friends much joy.

Congratulations, Rev. Roberto and Heather!

And welcome to the world, Rosanna!

There are always more people to thank and new work to promote. But this is a wrap for mid-March!

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ABOUT US:

Between 2011 and December 2018, Elizabeth Shih Communications chronicled the stories of B2B marketing and communications on the Prairies and across the country.

Effective January 1, 2019, I rebranded as “Storytelling Communications.” I help new and economic immigrants to secure better jobs or contracts by improving their English skills; and I help internationally educated, second language academics to publish more effectivel, so as to increase their success in the tenure system.

Interested in learning more? Please contact me through my CASL-compliant website (www.elizabethshih.com).

After I receive your message, I’ll be pleased to discuss projects with you!

Please visit my website for more information (www.storytellingcommunications.ca).

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January 2026 Vol 8 Issue 1

Tell Your Story Newsletter (TYSN):

Teaching English to economic immigrants and to

internationally educated, second-language academics

Let Us Help You Tell Your Story!

Welcome Mid-January 2026!

Happy New Year, Good Readers!

I’m a long-time admirer of the newsletter writing of American marketing star, Ann Handley.

Her fortnightly newsletter, “Total Annarchy,” charms her readers with its irreverence and fun, while not shying away from ethical implications, such as the rapid ascendancy of AI in all areas of our lives. She asks and discusses some of the most salient implications AI and related marketing hold for all of us.

An expert digital marketer, bestselling author, keynote speaker, former Chief Content Officer for MarketingProfs and former journalist, Handley crafts “marcom” content that engages our emotions, at a time when emotional and ethical integrity are often displaced by the latest hustle of “impactful” prompts, trending bots and social influencers.

One of her many humourous strategies starts from the “get-go” in how she addresses her readers. Last November (American Thanksgiving), her addressees were “Butterballs.” In December (Christmas and Hanukkah), we became “Sugarplums.” I recall a spring issue, where we were “Peach Blossoms.” And by so naming her readers, Handley (literally and metaphorically) is just getting started.

One practice that keeps her newsletters grounded is that she loves and encourages readers to respond–whether with “yahoos,” “boo-hoos,” or comments in-between. I have exchanged some fascinating and animated messages with her.

Handley keeps things real.  She describes her newsletter as focusing “on writing, marketing, living your best life.” She writes as evocatively of her daughter leaving home for college as she does on publishing ventures.

Further north on the Canadian Prairie, some 15 years (or 180 issues) after I started writing “Tell Your Story Newsletter” (TYSN), I also strive for reality (not for “reality TV!”) and I’m delighted to receive emails and other messages from you, my readers–the best sign of engagement.

Like “Total Annarchy,” “Tell Your Story Newsletter” (TYSN) remains free. It’s also 100% AI-free, spam-free and ad-free. My newsletter often addresses entrepreneurial wellness as much as (or through) communications or marketing ideas, and as much as English language teaching and writing issues.

Long-form Communications as a living body of practices are the “bread and butter” of my days, and of at least some of yours, too, as valued readers.

At the dawn of a new year, I hope that reading “TYSN” will feel much like a conversation with a friend. It’s why I address you as “Good Readers” or “Friends” or as “we” or “us.”

I hope you’ll share relevant issues with your friends and colleagues.

And while we all love a good guffaw (and some of those will definitely follow, this year), ultimately I hope you’ll find, by reading and responding, that none of us is alone in facing the challenges of our times.

Sincerely,

Elizabeth Shih

Principal, Storytelling Communications

 

 

IN THIS ISSUE:

->ARTICLE ONE:  On Microhabits: How to Make Freelancing Healthy (any Time of the Year)

-> SHOP NEWS

->ABOUT US

Article One: On Microhabits: How to Make Freelancing Healthy (any Time of the Year)

As most in the Western Hemisphere know, “New Year’s Day” is historically the date to make “resolutions” to improve our lives, health, or finances for our futures.

And while people tend to undertake these “resolutions” with great conviction, we all know that unrealistic expectations end in failure.

By mid-January and definitely by early February, often our resolutions, and the resolve to achieve them, have dissipated.

For that reason, I look forward to the quiet workout space at my gym, after “resolutionists” have abandoned their workout regimes!

But in place of “New Year’s resolutions,” I was inspired by a recent podcast episode from American copywriter and coach, Ed Gandia (“High-Income Business Writing Podcast”). The episode describes how we can make “freelancing” (and other kinds of self-employment) healthier. Healthier not just now, but even more so, three months from now.

So this first new article of 2026 will be dedicated to the wellness of entrepreneurs of all shapes, stripes, spots and sizes.

Gandia says: “Freelancers are great at pushing through. We hit deadlines, juggle clients, and squeeze productivity out of thin air.”

But at the same time, our “physical health often pays the price for all of this.”

Brain fog, insomnia, burnout, increased anxiety and depression,  insulin resistance, weight gain, intensive cravings for unhealthy food are some of the worst results from overwork. He says: “The side of freelancing that rarely gets attention is the slow erosion of our health when our businesses become the only priority.”

In the longer term, poor health and sleep reduce our creativity and with it, the quality of our work.

But how and what changes can we sustain, meaningfully?

Motivation is a finite source of activity. So building our own regimes on microhabits is wise.

Even the term “microhabit” has been a recent buzz-word. But it refers to a legitimate practice. A microhabit is a practice of making large goals feel less overwhelming by breaking them down into smaller pieces or activities, over time.

We repeat that small activity consistently over several weeks or months (such as walking for 10 minutes per day, or drinking two more glasses of water each day) until we achieve a goal larger than we could have initially imagined.

In his podcast, Ed Gandia interviews Lucie Robazza, an Australian-based, certified health coach, personal trainer, kinesiologist who has founded her own company, “Strenxia.” She’s a big believer in microhabits.

She says that “deadlines, your own business, AI, not enough sleep or healthy diet,” all lead to “all or nothing” strategies, doomed to fail by week three of a new year.

Robazza says if you track meaningful health metrics, you’ll start (gradually—one day at a time) to make real improvements through diet, exercise, and other lifestyle changes.

But this should be a gradual process, not a headlong rush!

Women face unique challenges in midlife that mainstream “lifestyle” practices miss, from Perimenopause to Menopause. Hormonal fluctuations in estrogen and progesterone are significant and as a result, “women become less resistant to stress in our 40s.”

Researchers have started (very late in history) to analyze biomarkers in Menopause. But Perimenopause can also cause emotional volatility, poor sleep and many other symptoms–that both women and men know little about. So 40+-year old women should discuss their health closely with their physicians.

Making incremental changes (not “all-or-nothing”) is more sustainable (e.g. 1% every week). New Year’s resolutions don’t tell us how to get there. (Motivation is never sustainable.) Instead, Robazza suggests that we need to build “systems,” based on small, attainable microhabits that we can do, even when we feel stressed out.

For instance she suggests practices as simple as positioning our bedroom furniture and clean gym clothes near our doors, to make it easier to get to the gym each morning.

Microhabits help us avoid failure, by helping us to strive for reasonable goals. She warns that otherwise, “the story of failure” will shape our identities, detrimentally.

As we start building microhabits, we start to feel good about our successes and build an identity over time that is positive. It’ll also be greater than the sum of our latest achievement(s)!

We will see the pattern of gradual improvement, consistently, over time. Robazza says we all need the encouragement that provides.

The jist of Gandia’s podcast is this: We tend to assume that New Year’s failed resolutions come from a failure in discipline or commitment, when they’re more likely too ambitious to counter the complex dietary and metabolic issues that humans face, especially as we age. (Gandia notes this applies to aging men, as well.)

So many freelancers have been pushing too hard for too long,  “operating in a chronic low-grade stress state,” affecting everything from “Thyroid function to inflammation to metabolic health” and more.

Here, to conclude, are Robazza’s top six microhabits:

(1) Get natural sunlight early in the day. This helps to regulate hormones for energy and sleep. Robazza recommends getting some sunlight in the first 10-15 mins of our mornings, as morning light improves melatonin production and helps with insulin reception. Daily sunlight regulates our sleeping and working hours. (In cold climates like SK, light therapy boxes can work.)

Even a morning walk to walk to the gym (without showering or preparing our bodies) will do wonders.

(2) Take water with electrolytes upon waking to reduce dehydration-related fatigue, cravings and to support cognitive focus. Robazza says to drink two cups of water as soon as we wake up and then to keep drinking water as we work through a day (an additional four cups).

Dehydration can cause cravings, brain fog and other problems. She recommends not to drink caffeine for the first hour after waking up. Water-soluble electrolytes are costly, so even adding a pinch of good-quality sea salt to two glasses of water each morning will make a difference.

(3) Ensure we get sufficient protein intake, especially at breakfast, to support muscle health, satiety and prevent energy crashes (critical for women, often late in the afternoon). A minimum) of 100 g of protein per day per women is necessary. And increase that to 120 or 130 g of protein, as we age.

Protein is the best antidote to those crashes, sugar cravings and an overly large appetite. Protein also helps to sustain muscle mass.

Robazza says  breakfast should consist of 30-40 g of protein to help regulate hormones. We need more as we age!

Consider that two eggs contain only 12 g of protein and we need 30-40 to start the day! So make breakfast more substantial or research healthy protein powders we can add to what we eat.

(4) Practice short movement bursts (“exercise snacks”) throughout the day, to break sedentary patterns, boost energy, and improve metabolic health.

Robazza reminds us that human DNA is structured to need movement. As many of us have heard, we’re not meant to sit at desks all day. So she urges us to try to disrupt sedentary work with micromovements (that improve insulin sensitivity).

For instance, she urges us to try “20 squats while the kettle boils; 10 desk pushups while ChatGPT is working on your search” and so on. Ten minutes spent walking on errands would also be great.

 

While these aren’t full “workouts,” these “exercise snacks” disrupt sedentary behaviour, like hunching posture, brain fog and exhaustion.

Over time, getting morning sunshine (microhabit #1) here could double up with one of these 10 minute, “exercise snacks” (microhabit #4) to reduce insulin resistance and help our bodies dispose of glucose. (Habits can be stacked when waiting for a bus or in traffic.)

(5) Reset and regulate our Nervous Systems by practicing deep breathing exercises throughout the day. (Deep breathing helps to manage stress, promote resilience and mental clarity). Before doing something difficult in our days, she suggests that we take one minute for box-shaped breathing (inhaling for four seconds; holding it for seven seconds; and then breathing out for eight seconds).

Also, deep breathing after we do something stressful can help to calm ourselves. (This is more realistic than following a half-hour of meditation when life is so mentally intensive.)

(6) Make habits “stick” as longer-lasting practices by simplifying our environments. For instance, lay out clean gym clothes the night before, keep a jug of water with sea salt near our beds.  Similarly, ask a spouse or friend to “hide the biscuit jar” out-of-sight and mind!

Robazza stresses that working with one microhabit for the first 28 days is the best way to start. Once it’s a routine, we can stack other habits on top, at 28-day intervals. Results improve greatly. (E.g. Stack some micro-exercises at the end of writing  a first draft of something; plan on drinking one cup of water after we finish every meeting, etc.)

She also suggests that setting “worst day standards” for terrible days can help with busy times. Then we won’t drop the ball entirely, but manage to fit in some breathing, for instance, and some protein-rich foods. The small size of most microhabits and their receptiveness for gradual stacking makes them more sustainable for the long-term.

 

Robazza concludes with the advice not to let our practices slide twice. (For instance, failing to eat protein on one day can still be counteracted. But if we repeat it on a second day, we’ll have started a “bad habit.”)

Start a microhabit “one at a time,” starting with one of the easiest. Do it for 28 days, reflect on whether it was easy (or not); then add a second microhabit and follow both now, for another 28 days (and so on). Robazza notes that behaviours can improve “from average to good to great” over three or more months. So starting one microhabit on a cold January day will reap benefits for us by spring!

By featuring Robazza’s insights on his podcast, Gandia illustrates that “practical, simple, and surprisingly encouraging” microhabits can make a lasting difference to our mid- and later-life health.

And who wouldn’t want that, in these challenging times?

And now it’s your turn. Are you happy with your current health as a freelancer or professional? Will you try to develop some of Robazza’s microhabits?

Please write in; I’d be delighted to hear from you.

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SHOP NEWS:

 

I’m observing this month that a long-term writers’ group I co-launched in 2015 with Ashleigh Mattern and Julie Barnes (Saskatoon “Freelancers’ Roundtable”), has been renamed and reconceived!

Henceforth, we’ll be known as Saskatoon’s “Small Business Group.”

Ashleigh, Julie and I started the group in the spring of 2015 to channel creative writers’ need for discussion, advocacy and co-referrals.

We planned our group over drinks (and a notepad) nearly 11 years ago, in a bar in downtown Saskatoon that long ago closed!

 

While we outlived that venue, we’ve since met in cafes and coffee shops across the city, including the Broadway Roastery on 8th, City Perks, Sparrow, and lately, HomeQuarter.

A word (and shout-out) to my co-founders and colleagues:

Ashleigh Mattern is the “chief storyteller” (writer, marketer and social media expert) behind Vireo Creative, a web design and content team (c. 2015).

She’s also a long-time creative, writing freelance journalist, producing content for the CBC, marketing copy for local businesses and exploring multiple literary genres and influences, including in her novel, Magicked Born (2021).

Ashleigh has been the regular anchor and leader of the group since 2015 and recently returned to that role after a few months’ hiatus. She regularly invites creatives to join in our discussions.

Co-founder Julie Barnes of Julie Barnes’ Creative Services, is a freelance writer and regular contributor to Saskatoon HOME magazine and for clients including the CBC. She is completing a degree in interior design from Yorkville University.

Some of Julie’s writerly interests include travel, gardening, architecture, residential construction, food, urban planning, cottage communities and education.

She has also worked as a talent agent for the folksinger/songwriter, Eric Paetkau.

. . . . With an 11-year history behind us, we and our other members are optimistic that Saskatoon’s “Small Business Group” will expand our topics of reading, thinking, discussion and co-referrals.

Since rebranding in 2021 as the principal of “Storytelling Communications,” I (Elizabeth)  have continued to write and edit communications copy, while pivoting to focus more on teaching the intricacies of English-as-a-Second Language (ESL/EAL/EFL) to adults and young adults.

Influenced by my background in academia, language studies and psychoanalysis, I continue to enjoy reading as eclectic influences as Susie Dent, Seth Godin and Adam Phillips, while striving to create clarity for the writing and speaking of non-native users of English.

. . . With our diverse interests as co-founders and members, Saskatoon’s “Small Business Group” has much potential to grow into the future.

“If the shoe fits,” we’d be happy to include you in our next meeting.  Please reach out.

 

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An energetic shout-out this new year to Northern Ireland-based, ESL teacher, Carl Cameron-Day, and (Glasgow-based) ESL administrator, Alan Moir, both of TEFL.Org.

Carl is an experienced, ESL teacher, tutor, teacher-trainer and exam administrator who has worked all over the globe. I know Carl as a sage advisor, who hosts webinars for junior and mid-career English language teachers with enviable energy.

When part of a work week takes me off the trail of language training, I’m always the better for tuning in to a TEFL.Org webinar, hosted by Carl and deftly facilitated by the amazingly skilled Alan Moir (himself an EFL teacher by training).

Their wry sense of humour adds to their charm. (Alan once adopted the name of a “Cupboard of Cheese” for a Q&A! . . .)

 

ESL/EFL teachers can watch recordings of these webinars (some going back years) on YouTube and on Facebook, filled with helpful tips and best practices.

There are always new stories and new people to promote in “Shop News.” But this is a wrap for mid-January.

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ABOUT US:

Between 2011 and December 2018, Elizabeth Shih Communications chronicled the stories of B2B marketing and communications on the Prairies and across the country.

Effective January 1, 2019, I rebranded as “Storytelling Communications.” I  teach economic immigrants to secure better jobs or larger contracts by improving their English language skills.

I also help internationally educated, second-language academics, to progress through the tenure promotion process by improving their English language skills.

For both sets of clients, I help them to integrate into our community and marketplace more easily than they would working (in isolation) alone.

Interested in learning more? Please contact me through my (still CASL-compliant) website (www.elizabethshih.com)

After I receive your message, I’ll be pleased to discuss projects with you!

Please visit my website for more information (www.storytellingcommunications.ca).

Feeling the Christmas or Holiday Blues? Here are some solutions . . .

December 2025 Vol 11 Issue 12

Tell Your Story Newsletter (TYSN):

Teaching English to economic immigrants and to internationally educated, second-language academics

Let Us Help You Tell Your Story!

 

Welcome Mid-December, 2025!  

Until the past few days, we have enjoyed a mild winter in Saskatchewan. But last Friday, winter’s hoary breath returned, with its usual arctic chill.

When extreme cold weather ends our year, I know that you, good readers (like me), grow especially worried for the health and safety of our homeless population.

Existing shelter facilities like The Salvation Army  Residential Services (for men) and The YWCA  (for women and families) continue to provide support, often reaching capacity during the extreme cold.

It has been heartening throughout 2025 to watch the efficient building and opening of a large extension to The YWCA shelter, near where I exercise, which has added 75 new shelter beds for women and children.

Newspaper and digital news readers also know that we have a new facility (operating year-round), called “The Mustard Seed Temporary Enhanced Emergency Shelter” at 210 Pacific Avenue. It has 40 temporary beds, providing 24/7 access and full support services, including some transitional support toward long-term housing.

This shelter fills a gap until a permanent, 60-bed shelter is built at 170-31st Street, E. (near Harry Bailey Aquatic Centre).

The City and Province are trying to provide sufficient shelter, when the goal remains to keep as many of our region’s most vulnerable citizens (some who have migrated from northern communities) out of the cold. 

So many of you and those in our networks regularly pitch in and help! Through the “Advent Appeal” program at St. Andrew’s Presbyterian Church (ably facilitated by member, Alan Ireland), once again this year, we have been collecting parkas, clothing, boots, warm blankets, sleeping bags and hygiene supplies on behalf of Saskatoon’s homeless and at-risk population. This month’s “Storyteller’s Corner” reminds me that even small acts of kindness can have a miraculous effect on others.

Notwithstanding the soaring cost-of-living, including basic groceries and amenities,  I hope that you, good reader, have a warm and in all senses “safe” home, not just at Christmas or Hanukkah, but also throughout the year. 

As 2025 draws to an end, some of you have remembered in your Christmas letters the ongoing (and complex) wars waged between Palestinian militant groups led by Hamas, and Israel; Russian forces against Ukraine; and a civil war in Sudan (raging for nearly three years), to name only three regions with massive humanitarian crises.

We can and do make a difference by sharing what surplus food and supplies we have, be it locally or internationally. (My social media feed shows many of you doing this!)  And we must vote for governments which find value in the sanctity of human life and act with empathy, as well as rigour.

In this last newsletter of 2025, I return to “Coping with Christmas,” a publication of the American Hospice Foundation (AHF). For those readers who care for others (young or old) on a daily basis and/or who face complex health problems of your own, the AHF reminds us to be attuned to our own emotional needs, not least when we face “compassion fatigue” or burnout.

Despite the challenges that fill the news, I hope, good readers, that you’ll have the health and opportunity to enjoy these last weeks of 2025, giving thanks with me for the family, friends and neighbours (including newcomers) who grace our lives.

I wish you Peace this holiday season and much health and happiness in 2026.

Sincerely,

Elizabeth  Principal  Storytelling Communications   www.elizabethshih.com

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IN THIS ISSUE:

ARTICLE One: Feeling the Christmas blues? Here are some solutions . . . 

STORYTELLERS’ CORNER: A Local “Advent Miracle” Story   

SHOP NEWS

ABOUT US

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Article One: Feeling the Christmas or Holiday Blues? Here are Some Solutions . . . 

For many of us, even if we have been raised to observe Christmas or Hanukkah (or other holy days) as a blessing, the holiday season can still be painful.

The pain may come from the loss of a loved one, a job, separation from a significant other, health or financial difficulties, the excessive pressure to buy and give, and so on. The so-called “holiday season” can in reality be anything but “ho-ho-ho.”

This holiday survival guide, written originally by the American Hospice Foundation, offers some ideas that may help us as we plan (or choose not to plan) holiday festivities.

Please read on and know that you are not alone in the loss or pain you’re enduring:

Christmas or Holiday cards (choose one):

1. Mail as usual

2. Shorten your list

3. Include a Christmas letter that you’ve written

4. Skip it this year

Christmas or Holiday music (choose one):

1. Enjoy as usual

2. Shop early, to avoid Christmas music

3. Avoid turning the radio on

4. Listen to the music and allow yourself to feel sad (or to cry)

Decorations (choose one):

1. Decorate as usual

2. Let others do it

3. Choose not to have decorations

4. Have a special decoration for a loved one, who may have died or left

5. Modify your decorations

6. Make changes, such as an artificial tree

7. Ask for help

Shopping (choose one):

1. Shop as usual

2. Shop early

3. Make your gifts

4. Make a list of gifts to buy

5. Shop through the internet

6. Ask for help wrapping gifts

7. Shop with a friend

8. Give cash

9. Give baked goods

10. Ask for help

11. Go gift-less and make a donation to charity

Traditions (choose one):

1. Keep the old traditions

2. Don’t attend Christmas parties

3. Open gifts on the usual day

4. Attend a worship service

5. Attend a totally different place of worship

6. Visit the cemetery

7. Attend Christmas parties

8. Go to an entirely new place

9. Open gifts at another time

10. Do not attend a worship service

11. Light a special candle to honour your loved one

12. Bake the usual foods

13. Modify your baking

14. Buy the usual foods

15. Spent quiet time alone, in meditation or relaxation

Christmas or Holiday Dinner (choose one):

1. Prepare as usual

2. Invite friends over

3. Eat in a different location of the house

4. Go out to dinner, possibly with someone else who is alone

5. Eat alone

6. Change time of dinner

7. Have a buffet/potluck

8. Ask for help

Post-Christmas and New Year’s Day (choose one):

1. Spend the days as usual

2. Avoid New Year’s parties

3. Spend time with only a few friends

4. Write in a journal about your hopes for the next year

5. Go out of town

6. Host a New Year’s Party

7. Go to a movie, watch a movie on a streaming service or even borrow a movie from the library

8. Go to bed early and feel refreshed the next morning for the new year ahead

And now it’s your turn: Does the Christmas or Hanukkah season present challenges for you? Please consider some of the above options you have to experience the holidays on your own terms.

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STORYTELLER’S CORNER: Words, Stories and Riddles  on Writing and Editing . . .

This Month (Back by Popular Request):

A Local “Advent Miracle” Story 

Last Christmas, Alan, a colleague and friend in my church community, shared a remarkable story of how the church’s seasonal gift donations benefited a downtown charity that helps victims of abuse and homelessness.

Alan says that one recent spring, “I went into the [church] parlour and noticed that the Advent gifts still sat where we’d left them, last December, since the office of the recipient agency was never open. I had phoned, left messages and visited in person multiple times, only to find the office closed.”

He continues: “As I was driving past one day, the spring after, I decided to give it one last chance and showed up to the agency, just after lunch. They were open!

It was obvious that the staff had just come from a meeting. One of the folk there came over and asked me what I wanted. I told her that I was from the church and had some very belated Advent gifts for them.

She looked confused when I said gifts, but when I said that the gifts consisted of toiletries and other items, it changed to surprise. She asked how many, and I told her that the trunk of my car was full. Again, there was a look of surprise on her face. She spoke with the director and then went into the back and got a small cart. We then went down the car and loaded it up. It was a small cart, so I carried the extra packages that didn’t fit.

When we got back to the office, she took the items into the back and the director came over and thanked me profusely. She told me that the topic of conversation at the meeting they’d just finished was how they were going to find toiletries to fill packages for some of their clients. They had a few items, but not nearly enough, and there wasn’t money in the budget to purchase more. They left the meeting wondering how they’d find the remaining items, and that was when I walked in!

We called it “Christmas in June!” We could have delivered the gifts the prior December, when other churches were doing the same and when the need was largely met. But by delivering them in the spring, we met a great need at a time when others were not giving.

We can put this down to coincidence or fate or luck. I look at it as an Advent miracle and a sign that our Higher Power is alive and well and living among us.”

And now it’s your turn: Have holiday activities of years past surprised you with any small miracles? Please write in and I’ll share your stories in a future issue!

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SHOP NEWS:

It’s time, once again, good readers, for a “Gratitude Roundup” for 2025–my opportunity to thank those in my professional and personal network who help to make life as fulfilling and purposeful as it is!

Thanks are due this year to ESL teacher, Steve Cavan, who has shared resources and thoughts with me, when I’ve been preparing different ESL classes.

Steve is a font of knowledge both of the English language and of the practice of online teaching. Thank you, good friend, for sharing all you do.

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Thanks also go out this month to bookkeeper, Heather Stuart, whose intelligence and knowledge of tax rules always help me administer my small business books.

After nearly 14 years of working together, I’ve learned the basics of good record keeping. I’m grateful both to Praxis School of Entrepreneurship’s (PSE) training, and especially to  Heather for that!

Thank you, Heather!

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Last July, Leslie, a psychologist with Saskatoon Public Schools, referred a case of a youth with literacy challenges to me, whom I found I could help (and enjoyed helping). There may be more students to come in 2026, which I keenly anticipate.

I’m glad to find I can adjust my academic and/or adult ESL vantage point, to fill the needs of younger learners, too.

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Another note of gratitude goes to Chief Visionary Officer, Monica Kreuger, for having mentored me for one final year (through the Raj Manek Mentorship Program), as I’ve developed my English language teaching and writing business.

Monica, her life and business partner, Brent Kreuger, and their team have worked for more than 30 years to train and advocate for many of our province’s entrepreneurs, through the Praxis School of Entrepreneurship (PSE).

More than 1200 proteges have entered that programming at both start-up and intermediate levels and have found their lives (and not only their businesses) transformed in the process.

Thank you Monica and to the Praxis Team!

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The past week has been somewhat trying for me, as I’ve been fighting off a virulent strain of flu, while completing work and trying to prepare, both for holidays and January contracts. (Sound familiar to you, good readers?)

Although I was scheduled to assist with reading and lighting candles for the annual–and very beautiful–Christian service, “Memory & Light” (St. Andrew’s Presbyterian),  I had to bow out last week to recover.

However, thanks to the wonderful live-stream recording staff, I was grateful to watch the service online.

Friends from my church community have blessed me greatly with their “Get Well” messages, gifts of soup and nourishing food, wonderful home remedies, cough syrup, food deliveries, recommended reading and more!

I am very grateful to these friends, many of whom are St. Andrew’s members (and I apologize if I forget anyone’s name): Rev. Roberto DeSandoli, The Pastoral Care Committee, St. Andrew’s Session and Board of Directors; Mrs. Heather DeSandoli; Mrs. Laura Van Loon (Parish Nurse); Rev. Jim and Mrs. Lillian McKay; Dr. Kirk Ready and Heather Shouse; Beth and JoAnn Brimner; Sharon Wiseman, Judy McFadden and Pat Barber, Rose and Orlanda Drebit and Bob Yakubowski.

Thank you all!

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This Christmas will bring some relief to my aunt and uncle in the Okanagan, who have (hours ago) received notice that my uncle can be admitted into Long-Term Care (LTC), after neurological decline.

I hope and pray that my cousins will rally around them and give them support.

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My thoughts go to my friend Lisa in Toronto, who lost her father in October and is now caring for her elderly mother. Lisa also must clear through her parents’ home, with limited available help from siblings and other family members. I  send warm thoughts and best wishes as you do this work, Lisa. Wish I could be there to assist.

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And finally, my elderly but much-loved mother passed away last May, so this Christmas will be my first without her.

Even though it sounds cliche, I continue to be so glad she’s found peace. I equally appreciate the outpouring of affection and support from my family’s friends, colleagues and neighbours who survive her.

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ABOUT US:

Between 2011 and December 2018, Elizabeth Shih Communications chronicled the stories of B2B marketing and communications on the Prairies and across the country.

Effective January 1, 2019, I rebranded as “Storytelling Communications.” I now help economic immigrants to get better jobs or secure larger contracts by improving their language skills; I also help internationally educated, second-language academics to progress through the tenure-based promotion system more effectively.

The support that I offer these two groups of clients enables them to integrate more effectively into our local community than they would, working in isolation, without me.

Interested in learning more? Please contact me through my CASL-compliant website.

After I receive your message, I’ll be pleased to discuss services with you!

Please visit my website for more information (www.storytellingcommunications.ca).

TEFL.org on the State of the Field Address (ESL/EFL teaching & learning)

 

📣CALLING ALL ESL/EFL Teachers and Learners!📣

✴️State of the Field Address: TEFL.org on teaching ESL in 2026✴️

Are you a newbie ESL/EFL teacher, an experienced one, or someone in-between, looking to refine your skillset and/or acquire more engaged students?

Tune in to TEFL.org’s State of the Field Address: What to know about and How to Build Confidence teaching ESL/EFL in 2026:

TEFL.org’s expert ESL/EFL teacher, Carl Cameron-Day, facilitated by seasoned operations manager, Alan Moir, will discuss these topics:

✅How to apply new technologies effectively
✅How to handle changes in students’ expectations
✅How to illumine emerging career pathways
✅How to explore key trends shaping our industry
✅Practical strategies for keeping up with AI, the uncertain world economy and politics
✅Actionable insights to help teachers thrive and feel confident in the year ahead.

💥 Join me on _Thursday (December 11th)_ at _11:00 am (CST)_ (5:00 pm GMT) to hear the State of “TEFL in 2026,” to hone your teaching game.
YT link is below:💥

https://lnkd.in/gTNNYwaH

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And . . .

☑️If you’re an ESL/EFL learner–an economic immigrant or internationally educated, second-language academic–looking to improve your English, to promote your business or to use English professionally, please tune in to this webinar, too!

You’ll learn some of the strategies that I’ll use to help you succeed!

👍 See you there!

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