On International Women’s Day: Women, AI and the Ever-Present Risk of Misogyny

March 2025 Vol 7 Issue 3

Tell Your Story Newsletter (TYSN):
Teaching English as a Second Language (ESL) to Economic Immigrants
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Welcome Mid-March 2025!

As I prepare this issue of “Tell Your Story Newsletter,” Mark Carney has been
elected the new leader of the Liberal Party of Canada and just hours ago was sworn in as Canada’s 24th Prime Minister.

Recently as everyone knows, unprecedented tariffs have been levied against
Canada by US President, Donald Trump, and the oligarchs who support him,
plunging our beloved country into an unprecedented trade war and the potential for great economic loss.

And, less than one week ago, we observed (or tried to), International Women’s Day, and (for our neighbours in the UK, Australia and the US), Women’s History Month.  The timing of Donald Trump’s undemocratic policies to coincide with the commemoration of women’s lives and rights is not coincidental, as becomes clear in “Article One,” this month.

Just as we need to stand up for Canada, we also need
to stand up for women: Elbows up, indeed!

In “Storytellers’ Corner,” on a lighter note, I show that whatever goes on in the world, English collective nouns (for animals in their habitat) still matter and amuse ESL/TEFL teachers like me and my students. Who says that grammar can’t be fun?

And in “Shop News,” I thank those in my social and work circles who lift me and others up, showing their integrity, generosity and kindness, that certain extreme politicians cannot fathom.

As winter grudgingly cedes (“seeds?”) to spring–local piles of snow are melting and grocery stores are selling tulips, daffodils and vegetable seeds–as we complete the first quarter of our annual revolution around the sun (2025).
How the days fly by . . . .

Despite the divisiveness that fills the news, may each of us as Canadians,
Saskatchewanians and, often, as women, rest long enough to appreciate the
blessings we receive and to feel grace and self-compassion for ourselves; may we rest in that emotional space before we work to support deserving others in our community.

 

 

Sincerely,
Elizabeth Shih

Principal
Storytelling Communications
www.elizabethshih.com
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IN THIS ISSUE:

ARTICLE 1: On International Women’s Day: Women, AI and the Ever-Present Risk of Misogyny
STORYTELLERS’ CORNER: For Comic Relief: On Collective Nouns for Animals to Cheer You

SHOP NEWS

ABOUT US
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Article One: On International Women’s Day: Women, AI and the Ever-Present Risk of Misogyny

“International Women’s Day” recently passed (Saturday March 8th, 2025) and the month of March is recognized as “Women’s History Month” in the US, UK and Australia (since 1987, building on a week-long celebration that began in the 1970s).

Online sources tell us that both the day and the month are a time to
“highlight the contributions of women to events in history and contemporary
society.”

And yet, if we are to take the US Government seriously, “women” and related
words do not exist, so that such calendar observances will shortly be effaced.
US President Donald Trump and the head of his Department of Government
Efficiency (DOGE), Elon Musk (supported by their male oligarchy), have ordered the removal of references to women and other, increasingly marginalized groups, from all government documents.

Internationally, we have seen the rights and support of women and minorities
eroding or withdrawn by authoritarian governments. These are “rights we thought we’d entrenched in our world,” laments TEFL Org Co-founder and Director, Jennifer MacKenzie (my ESL training company). Her company’s mission has been to “drive growth through language education.”

MacKenzie noted that the observation of International Women’s Day and
Women’s History Month have been “taken over by corporates and multinationals.

In 2025, she cites, ruefully, that “NASA ordered to scrub any mention of ‘women in leadership’ ” from its websites.

And she’s right. Reporters at The New York Times (reported on March 7th, 2025) pored through 5000 pages from various US Federal agencies and found that many words had been deleted (on Presidential order) from government websites and publications.

Trump and Elon Musk, though they often claim to support “free speech,” are
happy to censor language and ideas they find offensive or insubordinate–including women and minorities.

As you know, good readers, we have returned to a political period likened to
Hitler’s Third Reich, defined by toxic masculinity, and understandable, as some
writers and critics have argued, by historians or psychoanalysts and those who
devoted to those fields.

Trump, in his effort to purge the American government of “woke” initiatives, has censored hundreds of terms from government documents, including “women,” “female,” “females,” “feminism,” alongside dozens others, such as “accessible,” “activism,” “activists,” “advocacy,” “anti-racism,” “community diversity,” “cultural sensitivity,” “disabilities,” “diversity,” “equal opportunity,” “ethnicity,” “inclusiveness,” “LGBTQ,” “mental health,” “minorities,” “non-binary,” “oppression,” “race,” “sexuality.” And on the list goes.

One only wonders why Americans have not revolted in an uprising of their own
(against Trump, that is, instead of for him, as in the January 6th, 2021 attack on
Capitol Hill).

Researchers have been scrambling to determine what public data has been deleted from government websites, multi-disciplinary electronic publications and what reasonable, thinking citizens can now do, given the psychopathology occupying the White House.

If words can disappear, the people they denote can, too . . .

Not coincidentally, we have seen a resurgence in public conversation about the influence of Artificial Intelligence (AI) over contemporary working life, at a time when women’s (and others’) autonomy is under threat.

Sarah Steinberg, director of Global Public Policy Partnerships at Linkedin, wrote an article recently, called, “AI is reshaping work—let’s make sure women are not left behind.”

She argues that AI will only increase its power to drive economic growth and to create skilled jobs. But if we are to “fully realize this potential, we need to ensure that women, who make up half of the global workforce, have the skills and opportunities to move into AI-driven jobs.”

That will be particularly challenging to achieve, if the term “women” and
independent women in democracy, cease to exist.

Certainly Steinberg is right that women need more opportunities to learn and
“upskill” in AI. Hiring practices need to be modified, so women are hired
according to skill or ability, and not only by prior experience or connections in
“in-demand roles.” This change, Steinberg says (based on statistics of LinkedIn’s research division), could “increase women’s representation in the applicant pool,” desperately needed, “by a full 13%.”

She also writes, we have to use “real-time data and insights” to track the evolution of jobs and to design upskilling methods “to ensure all workers” including women “are prepared for the changing economy.”

But the world also needs a fundamentally different attitude toward humanity in relation to AI.

Citing new research from LinkedIn’s Economic Graph Research Institute (data
drawn from anonymized information of the network’s 1B+ members, around the world) Steinberg says that “one in three women worldwide works in a role likely to be disrupted by Generative AI” (the type of AI that creates new content based on existing data). She adds that women are transitioning into AI-augmented roles at a lower rate” than men.

LinkedIn’s “State of Women in Leadership Report” has published that “women
occupy less than one-third of top management positions, and the rate at which
they’re filling those roles has slowed [from 2022-2024], falling to a 0.2% increase [in that time], down from 0.8% increase in the two years before that.”

Steinberg summarizes that “looking beyond leadership, increases in women’s
overall participation in the tech labour market has also fallen, from a 2.5
percentage point increase (2020 to 2022) to a 0.1 percentage point decrease from 2022 to 2024, [with women] hovering around 43.4% of all workers in our data.”

She adds that “women make up less than one-third of the AI engineering
workforce—and an even smaller share of those with AI literacy skills.” So while
AI can automate repetitive tasks like data entry and processing, ostensibly to free workers to focus on more strategic or people-focused work, AI is also disrupting industries where women are more likely situated, terminating their employment in fields “such as writing, editing, translating, and data analysis.”

Few people would dispute that the world needs to invest in skills-based training for everyone, and especially for women. The transformative capacity of Generative AI [GAI] brings both opportunities and risks (as the “Godfather of AI,” British-Canadian computer scientist, Geoffrey Hinton, has long-cautioned).

But when references to women and minorities (including minority women) are
being removed from public government records, AI skill development and hiring are not likely. Instead, Steinberg identifies this as a time when many measures of women’s economic participation and success” in the workplace “are stalling or even declining globally.”

Steinberg continues: “LinkedIn data suggest that men and women do not have
equal opportunities to benefit from [GAI’s] transformation. Across nearly all
countries, we find that women are more likely than men to work in occupations
where we expect more of the skills to be replicated and outmoded by GAI
(“disrupted” fields) and less likely to work in occupations where more of the skills will be boosted by GAI (“augmented” fields). Globally, we expect one in three women works in a role we expect to be outmoded by GAI.

Women are at risk of being left even further behind by the adoption of GAI in the workplace—in Canada, as well as the US. Yet, women know how much we have already had to fight historically to get where we are—and that fight we now must redouble for us to work where we would like to be.

In my (currently, all-women) writers’ group, we gather monthly to inspire and
encourage each other with our successes, experiences, stories—and collaboration. We use AI to varying extents. As creatives, we collectively need greater resources and more equal access to them around the table—regardless of gender, sexuality, race, class, organizational affiliation, and so on. These are basic Human Rights.

And yet in 2025,  they are threatened.

Where I work to teach English-as-a-Second Language , I see women (including
online) lifting each other up, as we work in-the-trenches and, often with AI, amid the vicissitudes of daily life.

So, if the annual commemoration of “International Women’s Day” or, indeed, of
“Women’s History Month,” feels tired or somewhat “past” to you, good readers, I hope this editorial might persuade you otherwise.

Trump, Musk and their hate-filled, divisive allies targeted these dates for their
campaign to erase women and minority rights.

Their “policies” have yielded Orwellian times.

To close, a few final comments of my own:
First, a shoutout to the many amazing women in my writers’ group that I refer to above, and especially to my co-founders, Julie Barnes and Ashleigh Mattern (see their descriptions in “Shop News”).

We do exist, in-person, in (digital and other) print and in speech. We are human
rights and tech savvy when we share and publish our ideas–because of the many generations of women before us who have made it possible to do so, including locally (to name only a few Saskatonians), the late Merle McGowan, Monica Kreuger, Silvia Martini, Adele Buettner, Lillian McKay, Laura Van Loon, Gwen Ament, Annabelle Wallace. . . and the list could fill many books!

When women and minorities have the solidarity we must actively defend, human rights can and are observed and respected.

Finally, in 1993, in the Academy of Motion Picture’s “Year of Women” in film,
one of my favourite actors, the English feminist, Emma Thompson, accepted the best actress award for her role in a Merchant-Ivory production of “Howard’s End.”

Thompson said in her speech that she looked forward to a day when the industry no longer needed to so dedicate such awards, because women’s work would be so thoroughly acknowledged and integrated into the world that there would be no need.

Well, 32 years later, ditto for “International Women’s Day” and “Women’s History Month.”

Of course, with the influence of a repeated felon running the largest government in the Western world (and manipulating resources of AI to do so), we have fallen further away–not closer–from Thompson’s rallying cry of 32 years ago.

But we can still find hope and humour in our feminist political resistance to
Donald Trump. If the parallel developments of misogynistic and exclusionary politics these days feels overwhelming, consider this humourous side story, also furnished by Emma Thompson:

In 1997, when she said she associated Donald Trump only with “tasteless architecture . . . but already a boundless sense of narcissistic . . . madness,” she recounts that “Donald” phoned her one day, in her trailer, when she
was working on a film, to ask her for a date. She thought it a crank call, so replied “Oh, F- – – – off!”

When he convinced her it was actually him, she was astounded that he had gotten the number to a random phone she had never used, in a private film trailer: “So I just said I’d get back to him and hung up!”

By 2017, she quipped on a talk show that she regretted not accepting Trump’s
offer, as “If I had gone out with him for dinner, I could have [ruined his comb-over, hair-spray-heavy, orange-dyed hair]. And then we might all have known the truth . . . and then maybe HE WOULDN’T HAVE BEEN PRESIDENT!” she shouted.

And now it’s your turn: what do you think about the censoring of women and
minorities from government documents, at the time of International Women’s Day and Women’s History Month?

And, with that as backdrop, how are you coping in this age of AI and technological “supremacy?”

Please write in; I’d be delighted to hear from you.
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STORYTELLERS’ CORNER

STORYTELLERS’ CORNER: Words, Stories, Riddles and Jokes on Writing,
Reading and Editing . . .

This month: For Comic Relief: On Collective Nouns for Animals,

to Cheer You

Having reflected on weighty topics like misogyny and censorship in “Article One” this month, I’m pleased to share a fun point of grammar–on collective nouns for animals!

In a recent posting on LinkedIn, my colleague, (US-Based) Intercultural
Communication Coach and Trainer (and no Trump supporter), Lauren
Supraner, shared some fun knowledge about “collective nouns.”
Lauren writes: “Some estimates suggest there are around 243 collective nouns for people, animals, and things.

Languages with classifier systems (such as Chinese, Japanese, and Korean) do not have as many distinct collective nouns as English.
Many collective nouns in English are unknown to most speakers and rarely/never used.”

And then she shared this fun list: Are any of them new to you?

COLLECTIVE NOUNS for ANIMALS (in their native habitat, not on the dinner
table):

MAMMALS
–A pride of lions
–A herd of elephants
–A crash of rinos
–A colony of bats
–A troop of monkeys
–A pack of wolves
–A mob of kangaroos
–A scurry of squirrels

BIRDS
–A murder of crows
–A parliament of owls
–A gaggle of geese (on land)
–A skein of geese (in v-formation flight)
–A flamboyance of flamingos
–A conspiracy of ravens
–A kettle of vultures (in flight, circling)

MARINE ANIMALS
–A pod of dolphins
–A school of fish
–A shiver of sharks
–A raft of otters
–A bloom of jellyfish
–A bed of clams

INSECTS
–A swarm of bees
–An army of ants
–A kaleidoscope of butterflies
–A cloud of gnats
–(in colloquial use) A bunk of bedbugs

Speaking of dinner tables, you might try some of the lesser-known examples
(minus the bedbugs) above to charm the guests at your next party!
Please share the results with me for my next issue (lol)!
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SHOP NEWS:

Two nights ago, Shawna Nelson (CEO of Nelson Strategic Solutions and Executive Director of Downtown Saskatoon BID) and the team at Women Entrepreneurs of SK (WESK) hosted an interview with Susan Bater (Manager of Entrepreneurs with Disabilities Program, Community Futures).

Bater shared the success story of Taylor Layton, an entrepreneur with Down’s
Syndrome, who (about 10 years ago) started and ran for five years a brilliant
recycling business in Outlook, SK.

Taylor’s story infused the room with oxygen!
Her success was a perfect antidote to world politics, and highlighted the bravery and “gumption” of women entrepreneurs.

Community Futures (and its urban sister groups–“The Ability Hub” in Saskatoon) promote diversity and inclusion for women entrepreneurs with differing abilities.

Bater said that change is still needed to increase income exemption levels for
entrepreneurs on government support programs in SK (where it is little more than half of what is allowed in MB).

She said we also need to increase grants and “seeds-for-dreams” investment
opportunities for entrepreneurs with pluck and “gumption.”

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My renewed gratitude goes out this month to the two women entrepreneurs who co-founded (with me) our writers’ group–Saskatoon Freelancers’ Roundtable– more than 10 years ago this spring!

Thanks to Julie Barnes of Julie Barnes Creative Services who writes insightful
and evocative articles for “Saskatoon Home Magazine” and for the CBC, is an
agent for professional musicians and (amongst many other things) finds time
for philanthropy toward others.

Julie’s friendship and generous spirit are amazing and it is a joy to be in her
presence.

My other co-founder, Ashleigh Mattern of Vireo Creative (a website design
company), provides online marketing content for thriving business owners.
She also finds time to read voraciously, write and publish fiction and to lead
literary workshops and promote writers’ retreats in our community (and that’s
not an exhaustive list!).

I look forward to hearing a fuller update on Ashleigh’s writing when we gather
in the spring.

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As a part of outreach at my church, St. Andrew’s Presbyterian (YXE), Reverend
Roberto DeSandoli and members are striving to create a community hub with
other groups that will offer local assistance to the homeless and marginalized,
often in the downtown core.

Critics who lament the irrelevance of churches in our community need look no
further. But a major challenge remains to engage new and diverse contributors, so that long-time supporters do not burn out.

If you have resources of any kind (including time!) and would be interested in
participating in this work, please email me for further information (address
below).

While my schedule is often fully packed, I plan to contribute when I can to
literacy services.

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As a teacher to economic immigrants, I sometimes encounter well-educated,
cultured individuals who struggle with the immigration process and to find long-term, professional employment in our community.

When scheduling permits (and my family duties are manageable), I try to
connect these folk to entrepreneurs and business owners in the city (for no
affiliate fee–it is voluntary outreach).

If you are a changemaker and/or leader in YXE and have some time to spare to
assist such newcomers, please reach out to me at shih.ea@gmail.com

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Teaching ESL to economic immigrants is only possible when one has a quiet
and calm meeting space. For that, I’m especially grateful to the Saskatoon Public Library, who actively supports newcomers by sharing meeting space and its digital resources (terrific Wi-Fi!).

Library staff have helped students to download apps that improve their English skills (e.g. “Hoopla,” “Libby” and “Mango Languages”).

While the atmosphere at some branches is sometimes contentious (with
marginalized people seeking warmth indoors), welcoming staff keep meeting
spaces quiet and conflict-free, so patrons are free to learn.

Thank you, Saskatoon Public Libraries!

There are always new entrepreneurial and related success stories to celebrate.
Please send me yours to share in future issues!
But for now, this is a wrap for mid-March!

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ABOUT US:
Between 2011 and December 2018, Elizabeth Shih Communications
chronicled the stories of B2B marketing and communications on the
Prairies and across the country.

Effective January 1, 2019, I rebranded as “Storytelling Communications.”
I now help economic immigrants to secure better jobs or gain better
contracts by improving their language skills; and I help major
companies write their legacy stories.

Interested in learning more? Please contact me through my CASL-compliant website (www.elizabethshih.com).

After I receive your message, I’ll be pleased to discuss projects with you!
Please visit my website for more information: www.storytellingcommunications.ca

How can you sound (and be) more assertive, with Dr. Alexander Young

February 2025 Vol 7 Issue 02

Tell Your Story Newsletter (TYSN):
Teaching English as a Second Language (ESL) to Economic Immigrants
Let us help you tell your story!

Welcome Mid-February 2025!

As I pen this month’s issue of “Tell Your Story Newsletter,” most of Saskatchewan is blanketed in a month-long cold spell, with temperatures nearing -40 degrees Celsius.

The “deep freeze” in our weather feels apropos, as so much of the news these days conveys challenges we all face–such as respiratory viral infections in workplaces and senior care homes; healthcare and education sectors groaning under the weight of patient and student needs; homelessness in our communities that is not easy to address; and an outright economic war on Canada, declared by a tariff-happy, US President Donald Trump, to name only a few.

And yet, we Canadians are a stalwart and resilient people, finding ways to serve our community (and maintain sovereignty, as a nation) better than ever before, even under challenging conditions that sometimes arise.

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To maintain our ground, we need to stay confident. So in Article One of this
month’s issue, I visit seven tips on how to improve your assertiveness at work,
from productivity and leadership specialist (and an Orthopedic surgeon), Dr.
Alexander Young.

And in “Storytellers’Corner,” I return to an “evergreen” posting from four years
ago, on the worrisome development of “accent hallucination” and “accent bias.” American “GrammarGirl,” Mignon Fogarty, weighs in on the concepts.

Equally important are steps we can take to stop racism directed at those who speak differently than we do. They deserve to be confident speakers, too.
As we surpass the half-way mark of this, the coldest month of Saskatchewan’s
winter, may each of us find gratitude for the blessings that we sometimes fail to notice (e.g. the support of friends, neighbours or loved ones, this Valentine’s Day), but which continue to grace our lives.

Sincerely,

Elizabeth Shih
Principal
Storytelling Communications
www.elizabethshih.com
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IN THIS ISSUE:
ARTICLE 1: How can you sound (and be) more assertive, with Dr.
Alexander Young

STORYTELLERS’ CORNER:
On “accent hallucination” and “accent bias,” from “Grammar Girl,” Mignon
Fogarty (revisited from 2021)

SHOP NEWS

ABOUT US

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Article One:
How can you sound (and be) more assertive, with Dr. Alexander Young

As a teacher who is also an introvert, I often find myself feeling slightly shy when I first meet a non-native speaker of English in a professional or business setting. Those who study with me often say that they, too, felt nervousness in those first few moments. But we quickly find confidence in our ability to gain and use language skills in ways that respect ourselves and each other.

This month, I’m sharing some phrases that help professional speakers, teachers, students and executives (like my students and me) sound more assertive.

These pointers started on the desk of productivity and leadership specialist (and US orthopedic surgeon), Dr. Alexander Young. I’ve also deepened them.

Young often argues about the importance of sounding assertive in boardrooms; I would add this is needed in classrooms, libraries and really, in every room.

This issue is especially of concern to women professionals and newcomers who (in current political times) find themselves undervalued, or worse, shut out of decision-making and promotions, altogether. We might ask, how have the gains of women in the 20th C (which I studied faithfully as an undergraduate student 25+ years ago) been forgotten or undermined in the 21st?

The question of assertiveness affects some men, and non-binary people, too. How can all of us who work with integrity, talent and diligence (as the subscribers to this newsletter do) gain more confidence at work?

Young says that assertiveness is necessary but “isn’t about being aggressive. It’s about speaking with confidence and clarity.”

As in so many psychological processes, a lot comes down to language. Young
shares seven phrases to help all of us sound more assertive:

1 “I believe . . .”

–> Instead of: “I just think…”
→ “Just” weakens your statement. Removing it makes you sound more confident.

Similarly, “think” sounds tentative, whereas “believe” is more assertive.

“How to” Action: Start your sentences with conviction. Say “I believe” or “I know” to assert your point.

2. “Let me know if you have any questions.”  Or, better yet, as intercultural communication coach/trainer, Lauren Supraner, recommends, “What questions do you have?”

→ Instead of: “Does that make sense?”
→ “Does that make sense” suggests doubt. The alternatives instead open your
presentation for discussion.

“How to” Action: Young says to assume your presentation was clear and “invite
engagement rather than seeking validation.”

3. “Do you have a moment?” or “I’d appreciate a moment.”

→ Instead of: “Sorry to bother you…”
→ Young says that “apologizing unnecessarily makes you sound less confident. Asking directly is more professional.”
“How to” Action: Remove unnecessary apologies and ask straightforward
questions.

4. “I’ll find out and get back to you .”

→ Instead of: “I’m not sure, but…”
→ “I’m not sure” undermines your credibility. “I’ll find out” shows initiative.

“How to” Action: If you don’t know something, acknowledge it and commit to
finding the answer. No one has all the potential answers.

5.  “I recommend we try …”
→ Instead of: “Maybe we should try…”
→ “Maybe” sounds hesitant. “I recommend we try” positions you as a decision-maker.

“How to” Action: Be decisive. “If you have a suggestion, ” Young says, “own it
with confidence.”

6. “Here’s what I think .”

→ Instead of: “I could be wrong, but…”
→ Don’t undermine your point “before you even make it.” Young’s alternative is
more confident and likely to meet more respect.

“How to” Action: Remove self-doubt from your speech. Present your ideas with certainty.

7. “Let me know if you have any concerns .” Or, “What concerns does this
raise?”
→ Instead of: “I hope that’s okay,” which begs for approval.
→ Young’s alternative phrasing “invites feedback while you keep control.”

“How to” Action: Assume that what you say has value, until others object or
qualify. Young says: “Don’t undermine your own authority” or you risk inviting
others to do the same.

But always remember, Young says, that the “the way you speak to yourself matters just as much as the way you speak to others.” Negative self-talk spawns self-doubt and poor self-esteem.

Don’t forget to consider self-respect, in the silent talk that runs through our heads, daily! Plenty of recent Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), such as the classic book, Mind Over Mood, addresses that issue.

Making small changes in the phrasing you use—and your tone of voice–can make a big difference in how you’re perceived—in every room, for women, newcomers, indeed for everyone.

Thanks to US-based, intercultural communication coach/trainer, Lauren Supraner, for sharing Young’s posting on Linkedin.

Lauren’s book on accent modification for Chinese speakers of English has been tremendously helpful to my ESL students, which is important because accurate pronunciation is more likely to be understood and respected by others.

And now it’s your turn: do you already use some of these seven, improved phrases?
How can you incorporate them into your next presentation or consultation?

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STORYTELLERS’ CORNER . . . . 

STORYTELLERS’ CORNER:

Words, stories, riddles and more on writing and editing . . .

On “accent hallucination” and “accent bias,” reported by “Grammar Girl,” Mignon Fogarty (revisited from 2021):

Mignon Fogarty (America’s “GrammarGirl”) recently shared some findings on
issues raised by accented English, from the research of Professor Valerie Fridlund (Department of Linguistics, U of Nevada, Reno, NV).

Fogarty began by saying that research shows that people tend to prefer those who sound like we do. This leads to what linguists call “accent bias” (AB).
AB occurs when someone feels negatively about another’s (different) accent and develops resistance or prejudice toward it.

Fogarty goes on to report that AB can make it harder for those with minority
accents to succeed in school or at work. Those with different accents also may not find legal recourse for such discrimination.

Even the belief that people (who may be perceived as non-native speakers) have an accent, rather than the accent itself, can create a barrier to comprehension and acceptance. So some speakers are discriminated against or suffer accent bias, without even having an accent!

The increased processing time (a small amount more of cognitive functioning) that we need to understand a non-Native speaker of English, or even the anticipation that we will hear an accent, can lead to problems in comprehension.

That might be challenging enough for a non-Native speaker. But the phenomenon that someone who looks different will have an accent can lead to “accent hallucination.” Here, a native speaker is heard to have a foreign accent, when they actually don’t (e.g. such as a speaker who is a second-generation Canadian)!

Fridland’s research shows that online, oral comprehension among university
students of a lecturer believed to be an international graduate student Teaching Assistant (TA) can be reduced, when students are simply shown a photo of the TA as an ethnic minority. Here there is a perception (“hallucination”) of accent, not an actual one.

Just being shown a minority person’s photo made it harder for students to
accurately transcribe what a Native Speaker TA was saying! “Accent
hallucination,” indeed!

The bias is believed to pertain to the listener’s resistance to making extra cognitive effort to decipher another’s accent, which diverts attention from their transcribing process. Processing efforts and inaccurate hearing of listeners may affect how comprehensible speakers are found to be, whether or not they actually speak with minority (non-native speaking) accents.

Hearing something unexpected, like a foreign accent, can have other detrimental consequences, such as finding such a speaker to be less trustworthy or believable (credibility).

In the face of racist implications from linguistic misperception, Fogarty does have some good news: she says that “fortunately, we are [or can be] fast and flexible learners” of others’ accents and speaking styles. She shares these insights:

(1) Recognizing listeners’ bias, we must park some responsibility on the listener’s efforts and not only the speaker’s. (I can remember learning to adjust to understand a South African professor, 25 years ago, whose accent was quite new to me. Within the two hours of our first seminar, my comprehension level had vastly increased.)

(2) We can reduce listener’s bias (and delay in comprehension) by (i) increasing
our exposure to non-Native speech and (ii) by receiving more information about what to expect before we hear a non-Native speaker.

For instance, prior exposure to, or training on, speech with a foreign accent
reduces the cognitive processing listeners must do and can decrease negative value associations (e.g. the belief that “accented” speakers are less credible than “non-accented” ones). In truth, all speakers of every language are accented, according to our backgrounds; when living in the UK, I found my “neutral, North American accent” was unfamiliar to an Australian student, who ungraciously and frequently asked me to repeat myself.

Tolerance can be found when listeners are willing to make additional effort
and not if they are unwilling or refuse out of racism.

Telling open-minded listeners that they’re about to hear a foreign accent, prior to exposure, can help them adapt more quickly. This is likely because less of a
mismatch arises between listeners’ expectations and what they actually hear (which pertains to at least some of the results of “accent hallucination” studies).

Likewise, when subjects in linguistic processing studies were told, before hearing and rating non-Native speakers, that the process could affect the believability of the speakers, listeners no longer judged those with mild accents to be untrustworthy.

(3) Broader exposure to other, non-Native linguistic communities also improved listeners’ processing.

Encouraging listeners to have a “growth mindset” whereby they will improve in
their ability to understand and transcribe non-Native accents by increased
exposure, helped to decrease resistance and accent bias.

Dr. Fridland’s findings on “accent hallucination” and “accent bias” can improve
communication between Native and non-Native speakers globally, thereby
reducing racism.

As Mignon Fogarty concludes, it is our responsibility to “prime a positive
mindset” and to give listeners more contextual information about who they are
listening to, when we teach, introduce, or translate speakers with foreign accents, so as to reduce negative outcomes for both listeners and speakers, alike.

Do you have a concept, idea, or problem involving any aspect of language?
Please share it with me; I’d be delighted to hear from you.

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SHOP NEWS:

 

I want to thank deeply the medical team at Saskatoon City Hospital (the preferred hospital of most Saskatonians) for caring for me, during a health “blip” at the very end of January.

Although the government has long needed to consult frontline healthcare workers to create change, the doctors and nurses who treated me were very respectful and professional. They’ve earned my gratitude, many times over.

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Equally important thanks to Parish Nurse, Laura Van Loon (RN), for helping my
family navigate the choppy waters of hospital care, when specialists sometimes forget to share knowledge with family.

Laura is a discerning, wise, and powerful advocate for many–truly an “unsung
hero” of physical, mental and spiritual health in our community.
I thank her deeply, too.

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My advisor and colleague, Community Health Nurse, Joan Stephens, recently
shared that she will retire in April.

I thank Joan for her career-long advocacy for patients who find challenges
navigating the complex bureaucracy of our health care system.

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On the more familiar topic of entrepreneurial training, here is a renewed call to
readers with entrepreneurial instincts: If you (or someone you know)
is entrepreneurially minded or simply has “an idea for a business,” programs
developed and offered by The Praxis School of Entrepreneurship will help you
make it a reality.

Besides core training on entrepreneurial concepts and processes, such as in the growSMART program, the PSE also offers deep instruction on complementary topics.

Furthermore, you’ll benefit from gaining a network of engaged colleagues that
continues to provide support, long after formal programming concludes.
The PSE is a training ground for fruitful relationships with talented leaders,
entrepreneurs and alumni, under the visionary leadership of Monica and Brent
Kreuger, and their deeply talented and experienced team.

To learn more, contact the PSE program administrator at (306) 664-0500, or
email elainem@globalinfobrokers.ca

(Full disclosure: Several years ago, I facilitated business writing seminars for
Praxis programs, startSMART and digiSMART.)

There are always new businesses and programs to promote.
Please write me to share your success stories!
For now, this is a wrap for mid-February!

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ABOUT US:

Between 2011 and December 2018, Elizabeth Shih Communications
chronicled the stories of B2B marketing and communications on the
Prairies and across the country.

Effective January 1, 2019, I rebranded as “Storytelling Communications.” I
now help economic immigrants to land better jobs and secure larger
contracts by improving their English skills; And I help major companies
write and edit their legacy stories.

Interested in learning more? Please contact me through my CASL-compliant website (www.elizabethshih.com).

After I receive your message, I’ll be pleased to discuss projects with you!
Please visit my website for more information (www.storytellingcommunications.ca).

 

Want to find inner-peace in 2025? Here’s one way . . .

January 2025 Vol 7 Issue 1

Tell your Story Newsletter (TYSN):

Teaching English-as-a-Second Language

Let us help you tell your story!

Welcome Mid-January 2025!

The first days of Saskatoon’s new year started in the minus twenties and descended further for most of the week that followed.

Now, two weeks into the month, we are in our second brief climactic reprieve. Today’s warmth is so welcome, as such days allow us to catch our breath and walk or exercise outdoors, before “Ol’ Man Winter” returns (this weekend)!

In “Article One” this month, I revisit one of my favourite (non-fiction) books of all time—(the late) Susan Jeffers’  Embracing Uncertainty: Breakthrough Methods for Achieving Peace of Mind When Facing the Unknown (2008). Whether you have been making “New Year’s resolutions” or planning the next calendar year, Jeffers’ stalwart wisdom and realism provide some unexpected (i.e. counterintuitive) guidance.

The book provides a path to finding some inner-peace when these times find us enmired in a world of political unrest, soaring inflation, fierce conflict and wars.

In “Storytellers’ Corner” this month,  I revisit an infographic from “GrammarCheck” that first appeared as a meme on Facebook. I share 10 of the source’s 33 misused words or phrases, explaining the correct form of each. Some of these may be errors you’ve made for years!

And in “Shop News,” I provide some new “thank-yous” to friends and supporters who have recently helped me with growing my ESL teaching business, and so put a “spring in my step,” even during one of winter’s harshest months.

Few would doubt that these are challenging times. But I hope that you, good reader, will continue with your work and the witness it bears to the justice, kindness and humility that still flourish in our community.

As you do that work, I especially hope you’ll treat yourself with kindness—as you would a loved one or friend—as part of the inner-peace each of us deserves.

Through the physical and emotional warmth cultivated indoors by reading books or sharing conversation. . . may the best of winter be with you, good readers, as we carve our pathways through another new year.

Sincerely,

Elizabeth

Principal

Storytelling Communications

www.elizabethshih.com

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IN THIS ISSUE:

ARTICLE 1: Want to find inner-peace in 2025? Here’s one way

STORYTELLERS’ CORNER:

Ten troubling words and phrases (from GrammarCheck)

SHOP NEWS

ABOUT US

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Article One: Want to find inner-peace in 2025? Here’s one way

Any of my readers born before the mid-1970s may remember the famously titled self-help book, Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway (1988). Twenty years later, its author, American psychologist Susan Jeffers, wrote a far subtler and more convincing volume on life’s uncertainty—how “to stop trying to control the uncontrollable.”

Many of Jeffers’ insights in Embracing Uncertainty: Breakthrough Methods for Achieving Peace of Mind When Facing the Unknown (2008) are more relevant to us now in 2025 than ever before.

Jeffers has heard many patients express the anxiety that has come as scientific technologies overwhelm us, breaking down long-held traditions in life, culture, religion and work. Acts of terrorism and violence embody a threat that has become a “new normal” of 21st century life.

Uncertainty characterizes all of our lives, because we do not know what the future holds— not only as entrepreneurs, but simply as people.

Society teaches us to try to control everything, including our careers, relationships, children, health, money, the state of the world, and so on. Jeffers says we unconsciously expect that life should be certain, safe and predictable and we are uncomfortable (even panicked) about life’s increasing uncertainty.

We pop pills to decrease our anxiety or go into denial (acting vainly to try to make life safe), become addicted to work and digital devices that take our minds off the reality that we have so little control.

Jeffers says that, sadly, we often spend so much of our lives worrying and trying to prevent the bad from happening that we forget to enjoy what’s good. And so we waste our very lives. She argues that we need to find a way to enjoy “a rich, joyous, abundant life” that can exist “in the presence of uncertainty” (5). Uncertainty may actually make life wonderful, however counterintuitively that sounds.

Jeffers identifies three challenging realities we need to accept so we can paradoxically make uncertainty easier for ourselves:

Reality #1:

“The only certainty is that life is uncertain”—if we truly believe that life is uncertain, we don’t look for “guarantees.” We must surrender to the reality that we “control nothing about the future” and view that as an affirmation, not as bad news. So: we must let go of the hope that we can create anything certain in our lives (8).

Reality #2:

“Once you surrender to the fact that you’re unable to control [life’s] uncertainty,” “you will, at last, be able to breathe a sigh of relief” (8). That may sound like a tall order.

But when we reach a state of “surrender,” we can’t help but feel peace because we stop struggling to do the impossible. We recognize that it’s a delusion to think we can control everything. So when we let go of the outcome of any situation, we experience calm, peace and rest. We can look for ways of being that actually embrace the uncertain nature of life itself. How amazing such a philosophy can be for entrepreneurs who by necessity work without safety nets (e.g. uncertain markets, clients, income, etc.).

Reality #3:

Jeffers contends that when we accept deeply that life is uncertain, it opens the door to a more powerful way to live. We look instead for the valuable gifts inherent in each of us, no matter how bad things may seem in any given moment.

Finding the gifts in each moment minimizes and “can even erase” our suffering. We look instead for a way of being in the world that assures us that we can handle whatever life hands us. So we live with a “bring it on” attitude, knowing that we can face anything that comes our way (10). We view uncertainty no longer as something to fear, but as an “enriching” aspect of life.

In other words, instead of wallowing in distress over not being able to create certainty in life, we can find delight and purpose as we explore our own power to deal with uncertainty.  Jeffers writes: “There is great adventure in the unknown that propels us to discover powerful parts of ourselves that we didn’t know were there” (11).

Every new moment, day or experience (good or bad) brings a challenge and sense of wonder to us, she says: “The trick is to learn to love the uncertainty of it all . . . to find, at last, the great satisfaction, the great joy and the great opportunity that lies within the uncertainty” (11).

Jeffers stresses that we all have a choice to make—to live “unhappy, exhausted and with futility” (by “soul-destroying ways of thinking and being”) or with a sense of excitement and possibility about uncertainty. In Embracing Uncertainty she provides 42 exercises to drop the old pattern (seeking certainty) and instead to embrace life as a “grand adventure” because it is uncertain.

When we open ourselves up to uncertainty, we can see “the beauty, miracle, joy and possibility in it all” (13), she writes. In this light, we realize that there will be no truly terrible thing in our future, if we can find the learning and growth that come from it, and convert our upset, panic and uncertainty into learning and growth.

Even if things go wrong, we can be an adventurer rather than a worrier or victim, wondering “What can I learn from this,” and “I wonder how this will all turn out” and “I wonder what I’ll learn from this?”

It’s better ultimately to be excited by uncertainty than miserable about it.

Jeffers contrasts the “Lower Self” (similar to the “Lizard Brain” in Seth Godin) as one filled with insecurity, doubt, pain, fear; to the “Higher Self,” filled with peace, confidence, power and love. Life always looks better from the latter self and there we find the power to embrace uncertainty.

When you live by “wondering,” she writes, you are open to both life’s positive and negative aspects. That allows you to relax as the future unfolds, not inflating your mind with hopes and expectations that can easily be dashed. You observe (but do not attach to) the facts and your emotions. (This awareness taps into Buddhist philosophy.)

By contrast, when one lives by “hoping,” the dashing of your hopes leaves you unhappy and depressed.  Those invested in hope tend to have blind certainty, want to be sure about everything and a stubborn need to be right (as a “know it all”).

Jeffers insists that wisdom inheres instead in knowing that we “know nothing” for certain. So we need to be open to wonder and to the adventure of learning. We can let go of how we think “life’s supposed to go,” and feel curious about what may happen. She offers this (buddhist-inspired)  statement:

“Don’t wish for it to happen.

Don’t wish for it not to happen

Just watch it happen.

Let the wonder of life unfold” (25).

We need to try to observe our own lives and avoid being caught up in their drama, because it’s hard amidst much drama to embrace uncertainty.

Embracing the uncertainty includes cultivating emotions like wonder, curiosity, humour, love and trust that are more powerful when based in a spiritual realm (which will differ among us—whether we choose God or another creative source of goodness in the universe).

When we work on embracing uncertainty, we can ultimately say, “bring it all on,” because we know that we’re up to the challenge and that life is “hard for the fun of it” (266). Moreover, our creativity thrives in the questions that flow from existential uncertainty.

One thing we can do is take time as we live out this philosophy, recognizing that spiritual change takes place slowly and that joy comes from patience. Jeffers suggests another mantra: “I let go and trust that it’s all happening perfectly,” because if we can learn and grow from it all, “it all is happening perfectly.”

In this, one’s power is a state of consciousness (not a force to control people or events): We trust our own power to know we can handle it all. “Trust that whatever you need will be there. And if it isn’t, trust yourself to find it” (279).

There are potentially endless uncertainties in our entrepreneurial, professional and personal journeys, which no degree program, workshop or great book can make safe. That should not be our goal. I still recommend Jeffers’ volume highly, including its exercises, as worthy companions for these journeys.

Now it’s your turn: how do you deal with uncertainty in your life and work? Do Jeffers’ insights make it easier to “embrace” uncertainty, rather than fear it?

Update: In late 2024, I gave a copy of Jeffers’ book to a friend who was facing life-altering surgery at a young age. She found helpful, as I have. I hope you will, too.

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STORYTELLERS’ CORNER . . . . 

STORYTELLERS’ CORNER: Words, Stories, Riddles and Jokes on Writing and Editing . . .

This month: Ten troubling words and phrases (with thanks to GrammarCheck)

Through a meme on Facebook, I recently saw an online posting from “GrammarCheck” on “33 Commonly misunderstood words and phrases.”

The content of the posting is relevant to newcomers and other ESL learners, as well as to native speakers of English, since all of us regularly misunderstand these words and phrases.

The cause of such errors (as “GrammarCheck” notes) can be poor hearing, lack of comprehension of words, and/or speakers’ errors in informal conversation–all of which can confuse listeners. Some listeners then start or else continue to misuse the word or phrase!

Although GrammarCheck’s posting includes 33 words and phrases, for this month, I’ve selected just 10 for your reading pleasure, (aggravation or clarity)! Here they are:

(1) “Lie/Lay” — Each of these words is often misused for the other. Here, “lie” means to recline or rest on a surface in a flat position. (“I lie the cat down on the bed”). By contrast, “lay” means to place something on a surface or location. (“I lay the tapestry on the table for viewing.”)

(2) “Supposed” — This word is often misused to mean “suppose to,” but the latter errs by not including the letter “d.” The correct form would be “supposed to.” (“I was supposed to write my paper, but was interrupted by my roommate.”)

(3) “Should have” — has a clear meaning. However, “should of” is not proper English. (“They should have cleaned the house before they left on holiday.”)

(4) “Literally” — This word is often misused to express intensity, when it instead implies something that is completely true. So, don’t use “literally” unless to express exactness, recorded fact. (“She spoke literally the words of the agreement, as they appeared on the page.”)

(5) “Toward/Afterward/Anyway”— These words are all correct, but never should end with “s.” Therefore, “towards,” “afterwards,” and “anyways” are all incorrect, however commonly we use them in spoken English. (“He moved toward the worktable where she was painting; looked afterward at the mess she made, and left it all for the owners of the building, anyway.”)

(6) “Fewer/Less” — “Fewer” is used to refer to things you can physically count, while “less” refers to things you cannot count. I learned this distinction as late as graduate school and often find it as an error in mainstream media. (“We would make fewer errors in our experiment if students poured less water down the gully.”)

(7) “Farther/Further” — “Farther” refers to distance. “Further” means advancement. (“Let’s walk farther toward the road to further our conversation.”)

(8) “Wreak havoc” — This phrase is often misused in the form of “wreck havoc.”  To “wreak havoc” means to cause chaos. The faulty form has no meaning. (“The storm will wreak havoc with power lines and cell towers.”)

(9) “Another think coming” — This phrase may appear laughable, when it’s actually correct! The mistaken form is “another thing coming.” In fact, “another think coming” means that you have another thought that is coming to mind, as you speak. (“Give me more time to consider your question, as I have another think coming.”)

(10) “Climactic/Climatic” — These words are often confused for each other. “Climactic” refers to something that reaches a “climax.” By contrast, “climatic” refers to the “climate” or weather of a place. As you can imagine, we must pronounce each of these terms carefully and listeners must listen carefully to us, if the distinction is to be understood.  (“The weatherman’s anti-climactic style of presentation still provided climatic advice that the travellers needed.”)

 Do you have questions about specific words or expressions you cannot answer? Please send them to me, via my “contact” page (www.storytellingcommunications.ca/contact). I’d be delighted to use them in a future issue!

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 SHOP NEWS:

Thank you to the team of Women Entrepreneurs of SK (WESK) for hosting another networking event this month, this time featuring the entrepreneurial insights of Praxis School of Entrepreneurship alumna, interior designer, Miranda Young (of Broadway Ave and Main Street’s “Alt Haus” design store).

Miranda is an entrepreneurial visionary, who shared her perspective on persevering through times of professional challenges and difficulties, like those most of us face, at some time or other.

Do please check out Alt Haus with its wonderfully creative atmosphere and commitment to Canadian and local suppliers.

I also encourage you to participate in WESK’s programming (www.wesk.ca) to benefit from the stories, sharing  and expertise their events  provide.

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My gratitude goes this month to my colleague, former student and friend, William Wang, Director, China Offices of Alberta; and Chair of International Relations, Executive Council, Government of Alberta. William has promoted my English language teaching services over WhatsApp to local Asian entrepreneurs.

William has very graciously done this while refusing to send a modest coffee card or any other “thank you.” I thoroughly enjoyed the classes I shared with him last summer and fall and will return some of his welcome generosity when we meet in-person– perhaps when he least expects it—ha ha!

May the “Year of the Snake” (2025) be a hospitable and prosperous one for you, William!

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While musing on connections with Asia, I must add my special thanks this month to the always modest Trung Nguyen, an elder of my church, founding member of Saskatoon Open Door Society; and to Kayson Tran, administrator of social media for Saskatoon Vietnamese Association (SVA).

These fine folk published my teaching poster on the SVA’s Facebook page this month. The association is hosting its annual Lunar New Year Celebration on January 18th (tickets have sold out), after months of committed organizing its tireless volunteers, spearheaded by Trung and Kayson.

The New Year’s gala will include Mayor Cynthia Block, MLA Kevin Waugh and MP Brad Redekopp. The same team of Vietnamese-Canadians (including Trung and Kayson) will similarly organize another engaging pavilion at next summer’s “Folkfest,” as they have, for decades.

I encourage you to attend “Folkfest,” as I plan to, and to meet the welcoming and very sociable members of our local Vietnamese community.

Some of these members, like Trung, have called Canada “home” for most (or all) of their adult lives. They have quietly raised the next generation (or two) of Vietnamese-Saskatchewanians and pioneered the work of settlement agencies, such as the Saskatoon Open Door Society.

Thank you, Trung and Kayson!

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Thank you to the service staff at CartoonStock Ltd ( www.cartoonstock.com ), especially Sean Hanley-Horwood, who have answered my questions when I’ve purchased a license and cartoons from them (in Bath, England) for my LinkedIn prospecting.

When any technical glitches have arisen on their website, the support staff have been a great help. I admire CartoonStock’s growing bank of cartoons and capacious licensing terms.

Thank you, friends at CartoonStock!

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There are always new “thank-yous” to share and new businesses and entrepreneurs to promote. But this is a wrap for mid-January, 2025!

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ABOUT US:

Between 2011 and December 2018, Elizabeth Shih Communications chronicled the stories of B2B marketing and communications on the Prairies and across the country.

Effective January 1, 2019, I rebranded as “Storytelling Communications.”

I now help newcomers to Canada find better jobs or secure better contracts by improving their English skills; and I also write and edit the legacy stories of major companies.

Interested in learning more? Please contact me through my CASL-compliant website (www.elizabethshih.com).

After I receive your message, I’ll be pleased to discuss projects with you!

Please visit my website for more information (www.storytellingcommunications.ca).

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Feeling the Christmas blues? Here are some solutions (and some hope!) . . . .

December 2024 Vol 6 Issue 12

“Tell Your Story Newsletter”

Teaching English as a second language
Let us help you tell your story!

Welcome Mid-December, 2024!

In contrast to 2023, when Christmas saw virtually no snow and few days below -10 or -15 degrees (Celsius), this year Ol’ Man Winter packed an early punch (on November 18th) that has since stayed!

However, many of my readers have written me over the years to say they prefer a white Christmas, Advent, Hanukkah, or other celebration at this time of year. The snow can be beautiful.

Through the “Advent Appeal” program in my church, we have continued our
annual practice of collecting thousands of dollars worth of winter coats and
clothing, warm blankets, food and hygiene supplies for some of the city’s
burgeoning homeless population.

For this last issue of 2024, “Article One” revisits “Coping with Christmas,” a
publication of the American Hospice Foundation (AHF). Given the financial
struggles many face these days paying for housing and groceries, “coping” may be the “new normal” for many of us.

Entrepreneurs are studying markets, coping with the national postal strike and
leveraging new or renewed strategies to keep their businesses successful.
For those of us who care for others on a daily basis and/or who face complex
health problems ourselves, the AHF reminds us to be aware of our own emotional needs, so as to avoid burnout.

And in this month’s “Storytellers’ Corner,” I share a joke attributed to Oscar Wilde on exceptions to rules for spelling and pronunciation in the English language! As an ESL teacher, I find it warrants repeating, if you’ve seen it before.

In spite of inflation at our grocery stores and gas stations and other losses in these ongoing times, I hope that you, good reader, have warm and safe homes, not just this season, but throughout the year.

And if you (like me) are so blessed, I know you’ll share with those who are less so, whether through your “office pool,” the Salvation Army Kettle Campaign, or
similar work done by your faith or neighbourhood communities.

I also hope you’ll enjoy the final days of 2024 with family and friends, giving
thanks for the family, friends, mentors and clients who grace our lives. (Sometimes these roles overlap in wonderful ways!)

May you find peace this holiday season; and good health, happiness and prosperity in 2025!

Sincerely,
Elizabeth
Principal
Storytelling Communications
www.elizabethshih.com
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IN THIS ISSUE:
ARTICLE 1: Feeling the Christmas blues? Here are some solutions (and
some hope!) . . . .
STORYTELLERS’ CORNER:
A joke on the (Christmas) potato: On the quirks of the English language
SHOP NEWS
ABOUT US
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Article One: Feeling the Christmas blues? Here are some solutions (and some hope!) . . .

For many of us, even if we have been blessed to enjoy Advent, Christmas,
Hanukkah or other spiritual traditions at this time of year, the holiday season can be painful.

Pain may come from to the loss of a loved one, a job or business, separation from a “significant other,” health challenges or financial difficulties, the excessive pressure to buy and give, and so on. The so-called “holiday season” can in reality be anything but “ho-ho-ho.”

This holiday survival guide, written originally by the American Hospice
Foundation, offers some ideas that may help as we plan (or, choose not to plan)
holiday festivities.

Please read on and share with others who may find this helpful.
And please know you are not alone if you have “holiday blues,” and that it is
important to live through the holiday season on your own terms.

Christmas or Holiday cards (choose one like these):
1. Mail (if Canada Post’s labour strike ends), or email to save on stationery and
postage
2. Shorten your list
3. Include a Christmas letter that you’ve written yourself
4. Skip it this year

Christmas or Holiday music (choose one like these):
1. Enjoy as usual
2. Shop early, to avoid Christmas music
3. Avoid turning the radio on
4. Listen to the music and allow yourself to feel sad (or to cry, if needed)

Decorations (choose one like these):
1. Decorate as usual
2. Let others do it
3. Choose not to have decorations
4. Have a special decoration for a loved one, who may have died or left
5. Modify your decorations
6. Make changes, such as putting up an artificial tree, instead of a real one
7. Ask for help from others

Shopping (choose one like these):
1. Shop as usual
2. Shop early
3. Make your gifts by hand
4. Make a list of gifts to buy
5. Shop online
6. Ask for help wrapping gifts
7. Shop with a friend
8. Give cash
9. Give baked goods
10. Ask for help
11. Give an “experience” gift, like a gift card to a much- loved restaurant, or a
concert or sporting event
12. Go giftless and (if possible) make a donation to charity

Traditions (choose one like these):
1. Keep the old traditions
2. Don’t attend Christmas parties
3. Open gifts on the usual day
4. Attend a worship service
5. Attend a totally different place of worship
6. Visit the cemetery
7. Attend Christmas or holiday parties
8. Travel to an entirely new place
9. Open gifts at another time
10. Do not attend a worship service
11. Light a special candle to honour a loved one
12. Bake the usual foods
13. Modify your baking and cooking, to save money
14. Buy the usual foods
15. Spent quiet time alone, in meditation or relaxation

Christmas or Holiday Dinner (choose one like these):
1. Prepare as usual
2. Invite friends over
3. Eat in a different location of the house
4. Go out to dinner (such as to a hotel restaurant), possibly with someone else who is alone
5. Eat alone, while listening to favourite music
6. Change the time of dinner
7. Have a buffet/potluck and share the clean-up, after
8. Ask for help

Post-Christmas and New Year’s Day (choose one like these):
1. Spend the days as usual
2. Avoid New Year’s parties
3. Spend time with only a few friends
4. Write in a journal about your hopes for the next year
5. Go out of town
6. Host a New Year’s Party
7. Go to a movie, watch a movie on a streaming service or even borrow a DVD
from the library (if it’s an old title)
8. Go to bed early and feel refreshed the next morning for the new year ahead

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A recent update on this holiday survival guide appeared from “Becoming
Minimalist,” over Facebook:
“De-cember:
De-clutter your home
De-tox your schedule
De-stress your mind
and De-cide what matters most.”
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And now it’s your turn: Does the Christmas, Hanukkah or holiday season present  challenges for you? Please consider some of the above options to experience the holidays on your own terms.

And remember that crisis counselling is available 24/7, such as at number

9-8-8.   Please do not suffer in silence.

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STORYTELLERS’ CORNER . . . .

 

STORYTELLERS’ CORNER: Words, Stories and Riddles on Writing and Editing . . .
A joke on the (Christmas) potato: On the quirks of the English language

For many cultures that will engage in Christmas, Ukrainian Christmas, Hanukkah,  Kwanzaa or other celebrations this winter, the lowly potato will be a part (in some cases, a staple) of the cuisine.

The potato may be thought “lowly,” as the late Queen Elizabeth the Second was reported to dislike the starchy vegetable (she apparently refused to have it served at dinners over which she presided).

Yet the potato has historically been an inexpensive, bland and versatile vegetable that easily becomes “comfort food” in holiday times (e.g. Bangers & Mash; Scalloped Potatoes; Latkes; Perogies; Poutine; etc).

Now, what has the potato to do with spelling or pronunciation of the English
language, you may ask? Well, I present from friends on Facebook a joke attributed to Oscar Wilde, on the underappreciated potato.

The word itself may be used to show some of the many exceptions that exist to the rules of English spelling and pronunciation! Exceptions that beset the newcomers who study English with me.

Buckle up! Here we go:

” If ‘GH’ can stand for ‘P‘ as in ‘Hiccough,’
If ‘OUGH’ stands for ‘O’ as in ‘Dough,’
If ‘PHTH’ stands for ‘T‘ in ‘Phthisis,’
If ‘EIGH’ stands for ‘A‘ as in ‘Neighbor,’
If ‘TTE’ stands for ‘T‘ as in ‘Gazette,’
If ‘EAU’ stands for ‘O‘ as in ‘Plateau,’ . . . .

Then the right way to spell (and pronounce) ‘POTATO’ should really be this:
‘GHOUGHPHTHEIGHTTEEAU!’

Now, if you try to explain the above (joke) to a newcomer to Canada, you may
soon join the late Queen in her distaste for the potato!

And now it’s your turn: Have holiday foods or activities familiar to you raised
challenges in the English language for you or others? Please write in and share
your stories for a future issue!

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SHOP NEWS:
Entrepreneur of the Month:
I’m pleased to introduce a new member to my writers’ group, “Saskatoon
Freelancers’ Roundtable”: Carmen Gilmore.
Carmen entered the freelance world after working in environmental and energy policy. Then, her “bread and butter” was writing briefing notes, memos and drafting policy.

For the past five years, family responsibilities have seen her hyper-focused on local environmental issues and on connecting families and children to nature, through art.

Carmen has experience in writing grants and annual reports for non-profits; and in creating marketing materials, websites and social media for small businesses. Her graduate degree in public policy keeps her interested in governance, lately on non-profit boards.

Like many freelancers, Carmen says she “tiptoed into communications work
through volunteer roles, putting her hand up to say, ‘I can write that
article/newsletter/report!'” A long-time enthusiast for heritage research, she is interested in place-based storytelling. Carmen created a history walk that landed her awards in both Provincial Heritage and in Regional Centre of Excellence UN Sustainable Development.

She enjoys creating hands-on learning resources on nature for families and educators.

To learn more about Carmen, or to explore the possibility of working with her,
please visit her website: https://www.woodlandartadventures.ca/

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Heartfelt thanks go out in this final issue of 2024 to friends, colleagues, followers and mentors who encourage me to facilitate language (ESL) classes; who respond to my blog postings and this monthly newsletter; who have coached or encouraged me to achieve greater clarity in entrepreneurial goals; and who have lightened some of the weight of elderly caregiving that I have carried for the past five years.

With apologies to anyone whose name I temporarily forget, here is a roundup of some of the truly beautiful people who regularly grace my professional and
personal lives:

Chief Visionary Officer, Monica Kreuger, and the amazing team at the Praxis
School of Entrepreneurship (PSE); English and ESL teacher, Steve
Cavan; Saskatchewan’s best entrepreneurial coach (and PSE facilitator), Deanna Litz, of Powerful Nature Coaching & Consulting, Inc.; Minister of Word and Sacrament, the very empathetic Rev. Roberto De Sandoli of St. Andrew’s
Presbyterian Church; the always supportive Ashleigh Mattern (of Vireo
Productions) and Julie Barnes (of Julie Barnes Creative Services) for co-leading our monthly writers’ group that we pioneered, more than 10 years ago, and for offering leads or contracts to fellow members, when available.

Fellow writers, including both Ashleigh and Julie, along with Merle (Massie)
McGowan, Adele Paul, Ashlyn George, Tara Kalyn, Meredith Hambrock, Carmen Gilmore and Dawn Loewen keep pushing the envelope as they write (illustrate and/or publish) their remarkable work.

A “thank you” and smile to the wonderful Katrina German for sending freelancer Carmen Gilmore to “Freelancers’ Roundtable”; and to Candiece Griffiths and Sydney Boulton, for connecting with us by prospecting through WESK or Editors SK.

Many of us in the writing world have shared insights on self-employment and
been the better for the camaraderie.

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Congratulations to my client and fellow writer, Greg Gilroy, on this month’s
publication of his memoir, Behind the Wheel: Ramblings of a Veteran Bus
Driver, which I had the pleasure of editing last summer and fall.

Fellow transit drivers and riders, past, present and future, will enjoy and benefit
from reading the stories of Greg’s 32+ years of driving city buses in Saskatoon.
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I’m also grateful, as always, for the support of dear friends, Erin Watson, Dani
VanDriel, Barbara McEown, MaryAnn Lyle, Martha Fergusson, Donna Briscoe,
Jane Campbell, Sharon Wiseman and other “St. Andrew’s women” (too numerous to name here), as well as lawyer, Ben Nussbaum, and–especially, this year, to parish nurse extraordinaire, Laura Van Loon.

With a grateful heart, I dedicate this issue of “TYSN” to Laura and her family.
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For providing me with a good home-office space, I am thankful to Colliers
McClocklin Ltd, including Gladys Fehr, Kirstin Halliday, Gabriela Valdez, Rick,
Ann and Brenda Dietner.

Thanks are due every year to Kanchan Manek and the Manek family of the Raj
Manek Mentorship Program, who since 1998 have provided monthly seminars and facilitated extraordinary relationships between junior entrepreneurs and seasoned mentors on the Prairies.

Thanks also go out to the team of Women Entrepreneurs of SK (WESK) for
hosting refreshing and collaborative networking events that prompted me to renew my membership well before the official start of their fiscal year in April, 2025.
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I have especially appreciated the chance to teach English phonics this past year to one of my (now graduated) students from North East Africa; I wish her every success in her future studies and career.
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At a time when senior care in our province is challenged and when many private care homes struggle to provide sufficient support at high costs, the geriatric transition ward at Saskatoon City Hospital provided a bulwark from the storm, for one of my family.

My family remains grateful to its staff (City Hospital) as well as to several of the hardworking staff at Sunnyside-Adventist Care Centre, where a “first bed” offered stability and support to my family.
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As we look back over the past year, I’m sure that you (like me) have experienced your own losses or disappointments–and not all small ones.
But I hope you have also felt the support and camaraderie of peers and
organizations in our friendly and beautiful city, for which we are grateful.

And . . . if you are, or know, a newcomer to Canada who wants to elevate their
degree of fluency in English (listening, speaking, reading and writing), please
reach out to me. (Email is usually fastest: shih.ea@gmail.com .) I’d be happy to
conduct a no-cost, 15-minute interview to assess the learner’s needs for English language lessons.

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Meantime, at the portal of a New Year, I wish all of you, good readers, the very
best!

Look out, 2025: Here we come!

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ABOUT US:
Between 2011 and December 2018, Elizabeth Shih Communications chronicled the stories of B2B marketing and communications on the Prairies and across the country.

Effective January 1, 2019, I rebranded as “Storytelling Communications.” I now
help economic immigrants to land better jobs or secure larger contracts by
improving their language skills. . . . And I help major companies write and edit
their legacy stories.

Interested in learning more? Please contact me through my CASL-compliant
website.

After I receive your message, I’ll be pleased to discuss services with you!

Please visit my website for more
information (www.storytellingcommunications.ca)

 

 

What are some of the (dis)advantages of having a global language? Alexandre Chemla weighs in

November 2024 Vol 6 Issue 11

Tell Your Story Newsletter (TYSN):

Teaching English as a Second Language

Let us help you tell your story!

Welcome Mid-November 2024!

November seemed to sneak in my back door, prior to this issue, bringing with it several days of overcast skies and brisk winds . . . . But since then, much of the first half of this month has more frequently seen days of above-seasonal warmth and sunshine. November has often felt like September and has thereby earned our collective gratitude for deferring seasonal snow and cold.

Since mid-October, Saskatchewanians’ emotions have run high, due to the Provincial election; today’s Municipal election; and a Federal one to follow (date TBA). If these weren’t sufficiently engrossing, social and traditional media have been abuzz over the extremity of the US election and all of the negative global implications it brings.

And yet, Canada remains a democracy where we defend a just rule-of-law, despite the incursions of bullies and their increasing authoritarianism in our world.

In “Article One” this issue, we return to language issues. I summarize a blog posting of trilingual Canadian, Alexandre Chemla, on the advantages and disadvantages of having a “global language” (i.e. English).

In these challenging times, the status of the English language does not seem to be threatened. But what are the implications of its dominant status? What have we gained—and lost—as users of English, worldwide?

In “Storytellers’ Corner,” as the year winds down, I visit an official (and a second, unofficial) word of the year (2024).

Have you heard of these? And what other words have developed in the English vocabulary throughout the past 12 months? That segment provides some answers.

And in “Shop News,” I return to the popular feature of “Entrepreneur of the Month” (this month: editor, Dawn Loewen) and find new organizations and people to thank in my multifaceted career.

If you’re feeling troubled by the “news,” good readers, I remind you of a meme that recently circulated on social media. It quotes The Talmud and was used by US Vice President Kamala Harris in her recent concession speech:

“Do not be daunted by the enormity of the world’s grief. Do justly now.

Love mercy now.

Walk humbly now.

You are not obligated to complete the work,

but neither are you free to abandon it.”

As we approach the final month of 2024, may you also continue resolutely with your work, and with the witness it bears to the justice, mercy and humility that still flourish in our community–and beyond.

Sincerely,

Elizabeth

Principal, 

Storytelling Communications

www.elizabethshih.com

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IN THIS ISSUE:

ARTICLE ONE: What are some (dis)advantages of having a global language? Alexandre Chemla weighs in

STORYTELLERS’ CORNER: What is the word of the year for 2024?

SHOP NEWS

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Article One: What are the (dis)advantages of having a global language? Canadian Alexandre Chemla weighs in . . . 

On the Government of Canada’s Language Portal and under its “Our Languages” blog, I recently read a posting by Alexandre Chemla, a trilingual (now former-) student at the U of Ottawa who studied environmental studies (in both the English and French languages). Chemla values languages that connect him to his family history–that is, both French and Italian.

He presents two clear advantages and two clear disadvantages in learning and using a “global language,” like English. He recalls that his mother showed him his maternal grandfather’s work card used during the Second World War.

Chemla’s grandfather had left his village in Calabria (S. Italy—incidentally, where friends Steve Cavan and Kathleen James-Cavan have recently retired; but I digress . . .). Chemla’s grandfather sought work elsewhere in Europe. During World War Two, his German work card notably lacked any English translation. It was instead translated into French—the language that then occupied the global position that English now does.

Chemla found himself pondering what the advantages and disadvantages are of having “global” or “universal” languages? This question should matter to anyone who, like me, studies or teaches languages, in general, and English-as-a-Second Language (ESL), in particular.

He observes two advantages:

(i)   A global language allows people from different cultures to communicate. Language is the foundation for cultural identity, so having one with global reach enables people to understand each others’ cultures.

As an example, he recalls in the 2010s speaking to an Argentinian university student, after watching a live European football game in Buenos Aires.

English was not the native language of either man. Despite coming from different countries, they could still connect culturally through their ability to speak English.

(ii)   A global language facilitates international trade. Chemla acknowledges that “with the rise of globalization and neo-liberalism since the 1970s, wide-scale international trade between different countries has occurred.” This is fairly obvious.

Business transactions require effective and accurate communication. The outcome is opportunities for economic growth on both sides.

By contrast, barriers caused by linguistic differences have been seen and statistically shown to decrease trade between countries.

Chemla also observes two major disadvantages:

(i)   The dominance of a language like English has meant that “scientists who access a vast amount of literature from around the world” find challenges in publishing on it, “when they are non-native speakers [and writers] of English.”

Scientists need to clearly communicate “their findings, conclusions and methods,” which isn’t easy when they fail to speak and write idiomatic English.

Chemla writes: “Scientists who want their work to be globally recognized need to attend English conferences or discussions and read English scientific papers.” He cites “The Atlantic” (2015) as assessing that “80% of scientific papers are published in English.”

(ii)   The global dominance of one language (i.e.  English) threatens minority languages. A BBC article that Chemla cites says that “some 400 languages have become extinct” in the last century (1921-2021). This amounts to “one language every three months.”

The same source says that “50% of all remaining languages will become extinct” in the next century. He asserts that this is worrisome, because “an extinct language means the loss of a unique culture.”

Chemla says that while speakers of a global language may access “greater opportunities for employment, education and overall success,” those gains should not be part of a “takeover of minority languages by a global language.”

He rightly says that having English as our “global language” has both advantages and disadvantages.

What other advantages and disadvantages arise from the domination of a “global language?”

What does it mean that English continues to be the world’s “global language” (and in the context of this blog, of education and entrepreneurship)?

How might the digital language of AI or the languages of billions of Asians (e.g. Mandarin and Hindi) eclipse English? What implications would follow?

And now it’s your turn: when should we start studying other, less dominant (or minority) languages?

And when should we teach them to our children and grandchildren, rather than relying wholly on English and a monolinguistic culture?

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STORYTELLERS’ CORNER . . . . 

STORYTELLERS’ CORNER: Words, Stories, Riddles and Jokes on Writing and Editing . . .

 

This month:  What is the word of the year for 2024? 

 The American “Collins Dictionary” has declared the word “brat ” to be the 2024 word of the year. The word, adopted by the Anglo-Indian singer, “Charli XCX,” as the name for her sixth album, has been redefined: it means “characterized by a confident, independent and hedonistic attitude.”

Some other words that have been added to the English language this year follow. (This is not an exhaustive list.)  Would you use these in common parlance?

–“Prompt” (verb)—instruction given to an AI program to influence or determine the content it generates. (“There is a job posting on Indeed.com for an AI prompt writer.”)

–“Bed rotting” (noun) – spending many hours in bed during the day, often with snacks or an electronic device, as retreating from activity or stress. (“The teenager celebrated his graduation from high school with a two-day episode of bed rotting.”)

–“Girl dinner” (noun) –an often attractively presented collection of snacks that involve little preparation, such as a small charcuterie enough to provide a meal for one. (“Feminists have queried the use of the term ‘girl dinner’ for a light meal.”)

–“Mid” (adjective) –mediocre or disappointing. (“It turned out to be a mid event, despite all the hoopla and promotion.”)

–“Bussin’” (adjective) – great; wonderful; amazing. (“It was a bussin awards show.”)

–“The ick” (a noun) –a sudden feeling of disgust or dislike, often in response to the actions of someone else. (“Hearing about his exploits gave me the ick.”)

–“Pretty privilege” (noun) – an unearned societal advantage that a person has, by fitting into the beauties of their culture. (“Until she developed cancer, many non-royalists thought Kate Middleton was a figure of pretty privilege).

–“Barbicore” (noun) – an aesthetic or style featuring playful pink outfits and décor, etc., modelled on the wardrobe of the Barbie doll. (“After raising three young daughters during the last decade, Jean-Paul felt he’d had enough of Barbicore culture.”)

However, I’d like to suggest an alternative “word of the year”–a term stronger than “brat.” It left the digital pen of British dictionary writer, Susie Dent, and dates to the 17th century: “recrudescence.”

“Recrudescence” means “the return of something terrible after a time of reprieve.”

References to Covid and cold and flu season may momentarily come to mind. But for many of us, “recrudescence” refers to the rise and/or return to power of abominable “leaders” like the one south of our border!

Communications newsletters (like this one) generally aim to be politically neutral. Not so, this month!

But based on your friendly comments and social media postings during the past year, I believe Dent’s word may strike a chord with you, good readers.

Just as authoritarian leadership will sadly last longer in our world than just four years, I believe “recrudescence” has staying power!

And now it’s your turn: What do you think of these commonly used words? And what is the word(s) of the year in your house?  Please write in; I’d be delighted to hear from you.

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SHOP NEWS:

This month—a return to the popular “Entrepreneur of the month” segment!

Introducing,  Dawn Loewen . . . a new recruit to my writers’ group, “Saskatoon Freelancers’ Roundtable.” Here is some of her story:

 Dawn is a certified copy editor who has worked in the publishing industry since 1998. She specializes in detail work (copy editing and proofreading), though “copy editing” for her usually includes line editing and even some substantive suggestions, where the brief permits.

Her work spans everything from academic journal articles to fiction, World Bank reports to picture books.

Dawn tries to balance jobs that she says (to be frank) “pay well, but may be less exciting, with book editing, which does not pay well but is almost always fun and rewarding.”

She has worked on close to 200 books to date, in a wide variety of genres.

Lately, Dawn has worked a lot for Greystone Books and Nature Saskatchewan, as well as for self-publishing authors and professors.

She also enjoys a fulfilling collaboration with a local editor who prefers the “big picture” work and trusts her with the finer grades of editing sandpaper.

Dawn came to editing via a nontraditional route, earning a BSc in biology and physical geography from U of S and an MSc in ethnobotany from UVic. She received specific training in the form of editing courses from Simon Fraser (SFU) and elsewhere, countless seminars, and in-house mentoring.

After working for two different publishers, she turned to freelancing in 2004.

To learn more about Dawn, or to discuss your project with her, please visit https://loewenediting.com.

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A very deep “Thank You” goes this month to my church’s parish nurse, Laura Van Loon; and to mentors and advisors, Monica Kreuger, Adele Kulyk and Linda Catton, who have been supportive, when an aging family member of mine has long needed the care of a nursing (long-term care) home.

The advanced senior care system in SK (and beyond) is broken and tough to navigate. But whether over the past five+ years (or just a few weeks), these individuals have become not only trusted mentors but also valued friends.

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And special thanks to the nurses, care aides and communicators of the post-surgical and seniors’ transitional wards at Saskatoon City Hospital. Their kindness toward seniors has been remarkable and gratefully received.

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A hearty thanks goes out this month to “Chris” at Amazon.ca’s headquarters in BC.

Chris processed a return by phone of some seniors’ supplies that were delivered before I could cancel the order.

Most of us small-business owners would much rather shop locally to support each other. For instance, we would frequent Steep Hill Food Coop, instead of Superstore; and “Turning the Tide” instead of Amazon.ca!

But sometimes life circumstances see us needing to use a conglomerate like Amazon, with its capacity to deliver quickly!

Notwithstanding the concerns many of us have about such companies, I remain grateful that Chris stepped up to improve what otherwise was a frustrating day.

Thank you, Chris!

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I’m equally grateful this month for another engaging networking event, provided by the current team at Women Entrepreneurs of SK (WESK).

Last week’s “Open mic” session gave both experienced and newbie entrepreneurs a three-minute opportunity to speak about their businesses and receive feedback from WESK’s team of strategists.

The engagement that resulted was powerful, especially when entrepreneurs had differing experience levels. Recent photos are posted on LinkedIn.)

Thank you to WESK’s team: CEO Miriam Johnson, Jess Paul, Cara Cote, Jenelle Yochim and Michael Betteridge. (And sincere apologies if I missed anyone else on the team that evening.)

There are always new “thank yous” to share and new businesses and entrepreneurs to promote. 

But this is a wrap for mid-November!

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 ABOUT US:

Between 2011 and December 2018, Elizabeth Shih Communications chronicled the stories of B2B marketing and communications on the Prairies and across the country.

Effective January 1, 2019, I rebranded as “Storytelling Communications.”

I help economic immigrants to Canada to find better jobs or secure greater contracts by improving their English skills (ESL); and I write and edit the legacy stories of major companies.

Interested in learning more? Please contact me through my CASL-compliant website (www.elizabethshih.com).

After I receive your message, I’ll be pleased to discuss projects with you!

Please visit my website for more information (www.storytellingcommunications.ca).

 

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